I'm straight (I think I am anyway), but have always had a part of me that wanted to "experiment". I love the idea of masturbating and sucking another guy, and would to be on the receiving end of anal. But I have never had emotion feelings for guys, only a bit of sexual.
I'm now at uni, and want to try stuff. Despite still being a virgin, I really am tempted to go out and try to get a like minded guy who just wants a bit of sex.
Any idea's on how to do this without anyone who knows me finding out?
As a homosexual I think it doesn't make you gay to want to just experiment for sexual gratification, or even to regularly have sex with someone of the same sex if it's just on a sexual level. If you start developing an emotional attachment then yeh you might be bisexual but if you're concerned you might be gay then I wouldn't say you were.
A lot of girls make out with their friends while drunk or out having fun and I wouldn't say that made them lesbians. I knew some girls at my Sixth Form that all had boyfriends but would get together and use sex toys on each other just for fun, I wouldn't describe them as lesbians.
its not the label I worry about, its other people finding out. As where I'm at uni (and my home town) are very small, anything I did there would get back to people I know (which IS what I'm concerned about for now).
Re the internet suggestion - would that actually be safe for someone who just wants to experiment? I don't think I have the confidence to go to a gay club or whatever.