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Straight, but want gay sex

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    Basically, I'm a bit confused here.

    I'm straight (I think I am anyway), but have always had a part of me that wanted to "experiment". I love the idea of masturbating and sucking another guy, and would to be on the receiving end of anal. But I have never had emotion feelings for guys, only a bit of sexual.

    I'm now at uni, and want to try stuff. Despite still being a virgin, I really am tempted to go out and try to get a like minded guy who just wants a bit of sex.
    Any idea's on how to do this without anyone who knows me finding out?

    Anon or delete. Thanks.
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    Bicurious then.
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    Would you rarther have sex with a hot girl right now or a hot guy?
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    if I had the choice - girl.
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    That's similar to me, but I'm not confused, I know what I want. You can PM me if you wanna chat about it.
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    You're a a gay. Well done.
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    Don't feel ashamed OP, it's more common that you think.
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    Sounds a bit like me. In that anything I think about of guys is purely sexual. I'm probably bi, but i could never see myself having anything close to a relationship with another guy.
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    I could have written that myself. I really want to suck a guy off and receive anal, but the thought of kissing a guy I find rupulsive
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    your gay but don't know yet

    just wait till you find your sexuality

    Good luck
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    Have you considered things like t'internet, visiting a gay club/bar, and so on?
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    Your bicurious if your desperate for a label, but dont feel tied to a label, do what feels right and dont worry about it.

    I know, typical lib dem post.
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    As a homosexual I think it doesn't make you gay to want to just experiment for sexual gratification, or even to regularly have sex with someone of the same sex if it's just on a sexual level. If you start developing an emotional attachment then yeh you might be bisexual but if you're concerned you might be gay then I wouldn't say you were.

    A lot of girls make out with their friends while drunk or out having fun and I wouldn't say that made them lesbians. I knew some girls at my Sixth Form that all had boyfriends but would get together and use sex toys on each other just for fun, I wouldn't describe them as lesbians.
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    Just go to a gay club and see what happens.
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    (Original post by xx..SPOTTABLE..xx)
    your gay but don't know yet

    just wait till you find your sexuality

    Good luck
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    You're a a gay. Well done.
    I love how people can make judgements like these based on anon posts :rolleyes:

    The OP sounds bi-curious (the clue is in the title of the thread):

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    if I had the choice - girl.
    Which is:

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Don't feel ashamed OP, it's more common that you think.
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    Furthermore, that's pretty much my plan when i go to Uni in September. Living where i live, not much chance to experiment, and I want to try new things.
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    its not the label I worry about, its other people finding out. As where I'm at uni (and my home town) are very small, anything I did there would get back to people I know (which IS what I'm concerned about for now).

    Re the internet suggestion - would that actually be safe for someone who just wants to experiment? I don't think I have the confidence to go to a gay club or whatever.
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    (Original post by HyperBrain)
    I love how people can make judgements like these based on anon posts :rolleyes:

    The OP sounds bi-curious (the clue is in the title of the thread):



    Which is:
    If he wants to pack some fudge then it's clear he's a gay!
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    (Original post by _Cone)
    If he wants to pack some fudge then it's clear he's a gay!
    What if you had anal sex with a girl?
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    but dude come on, wouldn't you wanna lose your virginity to a girl , rather than a guy ?

    cos damn that will be one hard thing to forget
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