Touch you while you sleep - Perverted or normal behaviour???

i'll keep that in mind then

Tbh the only thing id be worried about is that I was missing out on it by sleeping and all. Id tell my boyfriend to wake me up first and carry on. ;]

i'll keep that in mind then

Keep anon because I know some users on here.

Ok Im not really quite sure what to make of this, I slept round my boyfriends house on Saturday, we are sexually active etc, etc, we both fell asleep and he woke up at 3.30am and I woke up shortly after around 4.00am and we decided to watch a film cause we couldnt get back to sleep so that was that.

Yesterday we were at his and messing around then he proceeded to tell me that when he woke up he was feeling horny and touched me up whilst I was sleeping, I just laughed it off cause I know hes a randy thing, and he said 'Oh I know you don't care', I kind of do though, is this wrong for him to do while Im sleeping, and today he said oh next time Im going to cum on your face, I honestly dont know if hes joking or not, if hes already touched me while Im sleeping whos to say he won't do that. Id rather be awake if stuff is going on then asleep.

Whats your opinions people.

Hmm just to clarify here Im not the user Paninsula who seems to have wrote a comment like its me, I know hes my boyfriend and if Im awake sure go for it, just while I'm sleeping, I dunno its kinda disrespectful in a way. I really dont know what to think tbh.

this is exactly what the girl should be thinking....


if you arent comfortable just dont sleep with him? and if u arent comfortable with your boyfriend touching you up then maybe you shouldnt be with him in the first place

Come on. Don't be silly now. There's a difference between being awake and consenting to being asleep or unaware.

I guess it just depends on what kind of girl you are. Id like being woken up to that if I was consenting a few hours ago awake, then what would be the difference a few hours later.
I really dont think its a big deal. Id touch up my boyfriend in the middle of the night, poke him a couple of times too so he actually wakes up;].

I wouldn't mind, but there are limits to what I would accept even if I enjoy them when I'm awake and this girl (OP) has her own limits at any sort of touching. I understand that and that's her choice, for someone to suggest that this means she should not be in a relationship or should not be having sex (can't remember which) is stupid and ignorant. People enjoy sexual activities with their partners but aren't always in the mood. They're allowed to make that decision. When they're asleep, they can't make that decision.
I would not mind my boyfriend/husband fondling my breast when asleep, I would mind him having sex with me when I'm asleep.
Consent/awareness definitely makes a difference. If my flatmates asked to borrow a couple of pounds then I would almost always say yes. Doesn't mean I'm going to be pleased to find that they've gone into my room and taken my money when I'm sleeping.

well i doubt he will be able to have sex with you while ur asleep unless he gives you some drugs to make sure u stay asleep.... but what would be the point of that if your giving him sex anyway while ur awake, when i think of touching in my mind i was thinking the fondling of breast or just feeling her ass up and theres nothing wrong with that even if your asleep.


is my point what difference would it make? its not like before you went to sleep you went to him
"dont u dare touch me while i sleep i will feel violated even though im letting you sleep in the same bed in my personal space"

What if she was very drunk?
Anyway, the difference is she doesn't like it. The difference is she isn't aware. You can't just do anything to someone without their knowing just because they didn't mind before. You always have to ask/get consent. Otherwise, why do people respond with such uproar when Sharia Law (or Arabic Law, whatever) suggests that a man should be allowed to have sex with his wife whenever he wants because she's consented through marriage? What's the difference? The only problem here is that this girl sillily hasn't told her boyfriend that she doesn't like it, which she should do immediately.

this is exactly what the girl should be thinking....


if you arent comfortable just dont sleep with him? and if u arent comfortable with your boyfriend touching you up then maybe you shouldnt be with him in the first place

what if she was drunk? obviously thats a different situation because she wouldnt be in any state to object, the point is if everything is normal and you are just sleeping together and he decides to fondle you then there isnt anything really wrong with that, she probably even fell asleep in his arms.

i personally wouldnt fall asleep with someone if i didnt mind them touching me because at the end of the day your together and there shouldnt be any malicious intent.

What if she was very drunk?
Anyway, the difference is she doesn't like it. The difference is she isn't aware. You can't just do anything to someone without their knowing just because they didn't mind before. You always have to ask/get consent. Otherwise, why do people respond with such uproar when Sharia Law (or Arabic Law, whatever) suggests that a man should be allowed to have sex with his wife whenever he wants because she's consented through marriage? What's the difference? The only problem here is that this girl sillily hasn't told her boyfriend that she doesn't like it, which she should do immediately.