Personally, I think a large problem as well is peoples complete willingness to agree that something is rape, when sometimes it isnt.
Dont get me wrong, rape does happen. But there are certain cases when a someone is just being careless, misleading or provocative. There are cases where a woman's 'no' was not clear enough, and the man genuinely thought he had consent. There are examples where a woman may be afraid to say no, then claim rape afterwards.
There was an example at my school where a girl claimed she was raped by another student. The whole school ridiculed him, insutled him and refused to talk to him, and that stuck with him till the day he left. No girl would go near him, guys were afraid to be seen with him, and teachers would treat him badly. Everyone took the girls word for it without thinking.
What had actually happened was both of the two people were drunk, and woke up not remembering much. The girl started saying she was raped, the guy said he didn't do anything of the sort, but admitted they had sex. Both of them were all over each other, and from everyone's perspective there was no problem until a few days later. Eventually someone came forward who had accidentally walked in on them.
Anyway, my point was that false rapes can happen to, and that can really screw up someones life.
I am in no way saying that rapes dont happen, but one has to keep their senses up and no just discount every rape story as being either true or false without looking at the facts and thinking.