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How do i seduce my boyfriend?

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    So... I've been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have a really good sex life, but for the past... maybe nearly a year? things haven't been right. We only do it once or twice a week, and ALWAYS on his terms. Every time i try anything i get told to stop it. It's really getting me down because i feel like im only good enough for him when he's desperate. So my question is what can i do that he won't be able to say no to?
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    No one?
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    dress up as like a nurse or a school girl.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No one?
    We can't give sex tips on this forum.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No one?
    Buy some new lingerie or something to spice it up a bit. Be a bit more assertive in the bedroom i.e. if he says no, stop it to something you are doing just carry on and tell him to take it like a b*tch. You catch my drift, just be a bit more kinky
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    I don't understand how watching porn together is recommendable, personally, I'd find nothing more of a turn off than knowing my boyfriend is getting hard watching some other girl on the television. It's not exactly going to make her feel any more wanted is it? IMO.

    My advice is to dress up, surprise him, I surprise my boyfriend often with stuff like a maid's outfit, and go out for a few drinks beforehand? I always find I'm more in the mood after an evening out and therefore, perform better in bed. Tease him too, start making out with him and when he goes for more say something like no, you have to wait to play, ha, that's what I do anyway, and my bf can't keep his hands away!

    If none of these work, just have a real talk with him, does he say he still finds you attractive? Is there anything stressing him out atm? Explain it's been bothering you and await his response.

    Best of luck
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    Strawberries and cream.
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    He's a bloke ... Turn up naked!

    Job done ...
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    Turn up at his in an anorak and heels
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    http://janome.com/documents/File/Emb...tick_woman.bmp

    Give him this. Instant boner.
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    The sad thing is most of the things you've suggested i've already tried, but thanks anyway. I've tried dressing up, porn(even though i didn't want to), being dominant, being naked.EVETHING I CAN THINK OF. I also had a few talks with him but he's insisting he still finds me attractive etc etc, but it hurts being rejected every time i try, and he knows exactly how i feel. Any more ideas?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The sad thing is most of the things you've suggested i've already tried, but thanks anyway. I've tried dressing up, porn(even though i didn't want to), being dominant, being naked.EVETHING I CAN THINK OF. I also had a few talks with him but he's insisting he still finds me attractive etc etc, but it hurts being rejected every time i try, and he knows exactly how i feel. Any more ideas?
    If you've done all of the above ... Dump him cause he's gay ... :yes:

    btw

    Personally, I think you should get a "Great Girlfriend" awards for the high quality of work that you've put in trying to please your man ... :woo:
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    I know the feeling

    I find that having more sex works only to make him enjoy it less. If I let my boyfriend have it less often than maybe I would like, he enjoys it so much more and that makes it better for me.

    With Tom it's easy. Sleep naked.
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    (Original post by Ice_Queen)
    I know the feeling

    I find that having more sex works only to make him enjoy it less. If I let my boyfriend have it less often than maybe I would like, he enjoys it so much more and that makes it better for me.

    With Tom it's easy. Sleep naked.
    WTF!!!! :eek: Next you'll be telling me that the sky is purple and grass is blue ... :rolleyes:

    You are a bad lady and need to get those EVIL thoughts out of your head! :yes:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The sad thing is most of the things you've suggested i've already tried, but thanks anyway. I've tried dressing up, porn(even though i didn't want to), being dominant, being naked.EVETHING I CAN THINK OF. I also had a few talks with him but he's insisting he still finds me attractive etc etc, but it hurts being rejected every time i try, and he knows exactly how i feel. Any more ideas?
    Flavored condoms
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    It's pretty easy tbh. Walk in wearing sexy lingerie. If that doesn't work well I don't know what options you have left haha. New boyfriend? :p:
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    grab him and throw him against the wall
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    (Original post by Jukukiwaiyi)
    grab him and throw him against the wall
    Grab him and throw him out of a window! He's not interested in GIRLS!!!
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    (Original post by Greghouse)
    Grab him and throw him out of a window! He's not interested in GIRLS!!!
    how do you know ?
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    Haha :ahee:
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