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I'm an escort...what shall i do'?

After a few months at university I thought I'd take the plunge so to speak and start escorting. I'm not a sex addict or anything, or impovrished. i guess i just felt that I wanted to try something new and it could end up being one of those I regret not having done that. men pay £150 an hour to sleep with me.
i have a boyfriend who partially knows.
I have moral twangs. But the extra money is really useful. And i spend it all on my friends parents and boyfriend, nothing stupid on me, just treating my friends to drinks here and there and stuff.
What shall I do? I have only told my best friend at uni, and I'm strating to become more secretive and i'm having to lie to people. It's pretty stupid.
Any ideas?
Thank you.

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Reply 1

Dream Weaver

just keep doing what you are doing, it is no ones business but yours.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

Don't do it? It's not very nice to your boyfriend who partially knows - he may not take it very well if he finds out exactly.

Reply 3

NoAccidents

isnt that technically cheating? :s-smilie:

Reply 4

LAX Inc

Please, quit this escort job and get on with a good life with your boyfriend!

Reply 5

Playboy King

Looking at the things you spend the money on, do you really think paying for other people and drinks are things worth escorting for? If you genuinely think it's worthwile to cover such unnecessary expenses then you must either have really loose morals or you just don't think much of yourself.

Not that I'm against escorting, but to do to pay for drinks and give money to others is just a rubbish incentive.

Reply 6

Erika Eleniak

How can your boyfriend "partially" know?

Reply 7

Nonbeatific

just stop, you have a boyfriend who "partially" knows?

Reply 8

paella

How can he 'partially' know??? Dopes he think you sleep with other men just for kicks?

Reply 9

Winnieee

Don't listen to them , if you're being safe and everything then it's a perfectly legitimate way to earn money.
Don't let your morals get in the way , you're doing something that makes men happy and you're getting paid.
And I don't think it's cheating , because there's nothing emotional involved and your boyfriend, however 'partially', knows.
Power to you x

Reply 10

ac132

Haha.... I think everyone toys with idea at one point in their life. Getting paid massive amounts for only a hour is easy. But don't fool yourself - you are still selling yourself cheap.

Reply 11

grt

Decide what's more important to you. Your job/money, or the relationship with your boyfriend. If it's the former, talk to him and see whether he's able to cope with it. If not, he probably doesn't like you too much anyway.

Reply 12

Delta Usafa

Anonymous

i have a boyfriend who partially knows.

He'll probably find out soon, both from the sudden inflow of cash and the rapid loosening of your vagina.

Reply 13

theBOON

Wait........you have sex with random strangers, and your boyfriend knows about this (I'm ready to guess he just misunderstood) just to treat your friends to drinks???????? What's wrong with you people?????

Reply 14

Natasha_c

It's fine to have a secret in your life, if you don't think it's morally wrong and are responsible I don't see a problem.

The only thing that's iffy is your boyfriend 'partially' knowing, it may be something you keep from family and friends but not your partner. If he doesn't know the full story you're just being a cheat.

Reply 15

THRASHx

If the OP is genuine then this is a sad thread. And the way a few people have encouraged it.

Fair enough if she was single and to the person who said it isnt cheating because theres no feelings involved? Well, im pretty sure having a one night stand when youre mashed is still cheating, I wouldnt be able to remember if there was feelings or not (probably wouldntve been) but I know my girlfriend wouldnt by that.

And if I was the OPs boyfriend id gtfo of a relationship with them.

Reply 16

tailschao

You should probably tell your boyfriend, he may not like it so it's only fair you give him all the info so he can make a proper decision whether or not he wants to say together or not.

Aside from that, do what you want. Your business, not anyone elses.

Reply 17

josh_a_y

Winnieee

Wow yeah, prostitutes are ****ing saints.

Maybe thats what you should do? Im sure there are plenty of men willing to pay you £150 for some sick child fetish of theirs. Afterall, you're getting paid and making men happy.

Do you have any idea what kind of garbage is spewing through that mouth of yours?