TLDR: My roommate hates me because I'm gay, what do I do?
For the first few weeks of uni we got along fine. I'm a fairly quiet person, and he understood that and didn't force me to make pointless conversation.
But over the past few weeks he's been acting a bit hostile towards me, but nothing I can really complain about to accommodation.
I think it's because he's realised I'm gay after seeing me with my boyfriend so much. When I walked out of the room a few days ago I heard him whisper to his friend "oh what a fag" and they muttered some other incomprehensible stuff and laughed.
He always acts as though I'm not there or I'm a huge annoyance to him. Like if I walk past him, he doesn't even look at me. When he leaves the room, he slams the door and sometimes switches the lights off. When he comes in he pretends to unlock the door as though there is nobody inside who has unlocked it. Sometimes when he's on Skype he will just blatently talk about me like I can't hear him.
I'm now spending as much time out of my room as possible - I leave for my 9AM lecture and only go back to get books and stuff. At night I come back at around 12/3 depending on whether I went to the union or to play on the computers in labs.
My sexuality isn't a secret, but I haven't actually told him and it's not obvious when you meet me. When I meet people I don't say "Oh hi my names fred and I'm queer", but would it have been a good idea to tell him initially? Telling him now is pointless because he already knows.. but he doesn't know that I know that he knows, if you see what I mean.
I can't really have a chat with him about it either, because as I said we never speak much and I'm very socially awkward. When we do speak about little things he sounds completly normal, and it's made me think I'm just imagining the entire thing. But some things can't be imagined.. like the conversations he has about me on Skype.
I don't have many friends and sometimes he'll be the only person I see all weekend, which is quite depressing when they hate you. Luckily the growing desire to kill myself is interrupted on monday when I meet nice people in lectures, labs and the union.
Anyway, sorry for the massive post.. I just need any advice anyone can give me, maybe stories of a similar situation?