what do guys think of women that don't ever want children

So far, yes. Yet there is no guarantee your child won't go off the rails and not give a damn, no matter how hard you try.


I think all of your reasons for wanting kids are selfish and idiotic, does that mean they aren't good? I'm sure they make perfect sense in your breeder mind.

People decide they don't want kids after all all the time, when they realise that it's not all fun and games and nativity plays and "they'll look after you!!1!One!!1" which isn't always the case at all.

You come across very cynical, are you a cynical person? stop being so cynical.

if that bitch aint gon' have ma kids...

then what she good fo?

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Just telling it how it is and speaking from experience, bro.

So far, yes. Yet there is no guarantee your child won't go off the rails and not give a damn, no matter how hard you try.


I think all of your reasons for wanting kids are selfish and idiotic, does that mean they aren't good? I'm sure they make perfect sense in your breeder mind.

People decide they don't want kids after all all the time, when they realise that it's not all fun and games and nativity plays and "they'll look after you!!1!One!!1" which isn't always the case at all.

Well the majority of kids don't go off the rails, and if they do realise and get back on it. Especially in my family, i've been raised well and so have every faith that my kids will be too.

When you've come to the realisation that its not all fun and games, especially in the beginning - and lets not forget people mature and become more and more responsible with age, then I think ruling something that is a clearly natural part in life (lets not forget women are their shape for a reason, to bear children) then its totally ignorant.

bro

Doesn't matter how well you bring them up, it happens.




No, it's called a preference.

My boyfriend is 28 and adamant he doesn't want children, is he "immature"? "Ignorant"? Do you think he needs to become "more and more responsible", being a feckless 28 year old child? No, he just has a preference, and not everyone has to have children. You are the one who needs to grow up and mature, and see that not everyone has to follow the same path in life.

You are an idiot, I pity your future children.

... I think ruling something that is a clearly natural part in life (lets not forget women are their shape for a reason, to bear children) then its totally ignorant.

It's "ignorant" to not follow nature? So because I have a womb I should HAVE to have children against my own inclinations? Or I should, impossibly, force myself to want them? I'm not even totally against having kids but I think that was a ridiculous thing to say.

Did I say everone has to have children? The original topic was "what to guys think of women that don't ever want to have children?" and I stated that they weren't for me. And did I say anyone who didnt want children were immature and ignorant? Did I? No so shut the fu*ck up. I said people with age do tend to get mature with age and know more about what they want later in life, and since this is a forum catering to what? 18 year olds on average? Half the women here dont know what they'll want in 10 years time, especially with something so sensitive as giving birth - that's why its silly to rule it out AT THIS AGE.

Thanks for resorting to calling me an idiot, appreciate it. I pity your relationship with your pervey boyfriend who you met on Omegle O_o

I called you idiotic because of your point of view on this very topic, whereas you've just served to make yourself look incredibly pathetic by having to resort to looking through my posts in order to find something to insult me with which wasn't even relevant. (Or insulting!)

Yes, I met my boyfriend on Omegle and yes, he is a pervert (in a good way!) As it happens, I have a loving relationship which isn't conditional on the fact I can crap out a kid. I'm content with myself, maybe you should try it sometime.

I was going to type sir but I thought you'd probably take it in a sarcastic way.

Not interested in children in the slightest. I'll never say I won't change my mind, but as it stands I certainly don't see kids in my future. I have absolutely no desire for them!

Hmm well saying something as degrading as "I pity your future children" isnt something one would take lightly...

So you think people who have children aren't capable of having a loving relationship? O_o

Hmm, you seem like a very bitter and cynical person...

No, I'm not saying that. But my relationship doesn't depend on me popping out his kids for him to love me (some people on this very thread would not love a woman who did not want children) so however amusing or sad you may find it that we chanced upon each other online, I know that we do have a pure and true love, that he wants me for me and not my womb, and I am content with that.

I am very cynical, but I don't have anything to be bitter about, really.

Sorry for my comment, then. This is a subject that gets me angry when people act as if the childfree are somehow unnatural, and I do tend to be quite harsh. I apologise.