Planning to see an escort. Male, 19, virgin.

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Reply 40

TheRealDarthVader

Original post by bobcat7

where can i buy some of this stuff?

Send me £30 in the post, in a box big enough to fit both your fists in, with a return address attached.

Reply 41

Shaun1991

Just stick to watching Bangkok Lady Boys for now, your time will come.

Reply 42

username51312

Original post by Anonymous

It's embarrasing to go to an escort.

And why is it embarrassing?
Embarrassing is to chase after girls and get shot down every time ...

Reply 43

Kodias

Original post by Anonymous

I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.

There are plenty of people older than you that have not shagged a girl for **** sakes.

If you want to stoop that low then that's up to you but I'd recommend just having a W.A.N.K. for now.

Reply 44

ilickbatteries

Original post by Anonymous

It's up to you man but if I was in your shoes I'd wait.

I'd rather lose it late with a woman who actually likes me than early with a woman who is only there because I'm paying her.

People who aren't virgins always find it easier to say "yeah, wait". I can imagine it's very difficult being a virgin at 19. There are some lads, regardless of attractiveness or whatever that girls simply aren't attracted to. That's gotta be frustrating.

Reply 45

stargirl63

It's understandable if you are getting frustrated that you want to lose your virginity. And it doesn't help if there's peer pressure, etc.

But, I mean, first time, it can be something that comes up later on, like when you have a gf or on some lads night out...You don't really want to say "I paid for it"

Reply 46

bloomblaze

Original post by ilickbatteries

True. All the people who tell virgins or OP to 'wait' are not virgins themselves. Ive noticed this trend occurs all the time on tsr.

I am against the OP idea of losing virginity to an escourt, although i can empathise with how frustrating being a virgin can be due to having curiousity of what sex must be like, and having to live in a society where sex is in your face in the media all the time or many of your mates are non virgins

Still, id advise you not to lose it to an escourt , op for reasons already stated by other people.

Reply 47

balface

Original post by Threepigs

Mum: Ooooh my boy's all grown up, making manly decisions! Have fun Jacob!

Your sig has frightened the crap outta me! Like I don't have enough trouble sleeping already....
..but +rep!

EDIT:
I didn't actually offer any advice...so here goes; I think you need to do whatever you think will make you happier as a person eventually. If you view losing your virginity as a hurdle that you desperately and rapidly need to get over, and once you do you will feel happier, ergo more confident and thus able to chat to the ladies (as everyone knows, ladies love confidence), then do it.

As a girl, if you were my boyfriend and I knew you were a virgin at 19, I honestly really wouldn't give a crap. There is no "set" age to lose your virginity.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 48

NS17

Do it, first time is never great anyway. As someone else said, it might make you more confident == attractive to girls.

Reply 49

EskimoJo

What? Just the once? And after that you'll be brilliant at sex and confident with girls because you know you're brilliant at sex...right? You won't just be some guy who's had sex 'only' once and had to pay for it? No?

Reply 50

noobynoo

Original post by Anonymous

So you're going to see a (probably Eastern European) hooker? Or maybe a crack-whore?

It's people like you who are the cause of people trafficking, modern day slavery and keeping young women in their heroin habbit. I hope you're proud of yourself. :mad:

Reply 51

MAXSTARR

i used to be a male escort, and i had to 'help' a girl aged 19 lose her virginity......... i felt so sorry for her as she was throwing away her virginity to someone who couldnt give 2 ****s about her...... dont bother mate. wait for the right girl, you're not going to be a virgin all your life.... sex isnt all its cracked (pun not intended) upto be. i enjoyed it a lot more when it wasnt just for money... as soppy as it seems, but its true.

Reply 52

dog24

Original post by Rhiani-ani-on

and you quoted me why?

I never said anything about it being special.

If he wants to do it, he wants to do it, but if his age has something to do with it I was just saying 19 isn't that old. Also, I feel sleeping with someone at a party and sleeping with an escort is quite different.

genuinely have no idea why I quoted you! sorry no hard feelings :P

Reply 53

jolteon

is your father forcing you into this? i mean my dad did that, he even knew the appropriate woman for me, he just called it in and there she was. so i went to her place to commit the deed and she was telling me things about becoming a man was actually about being strong and independent, which is a feeling one gets after their first conquest and thus i didn't know it yet, but anyway we copulated and it was nice, but i realised that the truth was i had to stand up to my dad, so i released the lock he put on mal's shuttle and laughed.

Reply 54

Jenny_Jazz

Original post by Anonymous

Nothing wrong with seeing escorts, but whether you should for your first time is something altogether.

Anyway If you are going to see an escort you should probably go see an independent ones as they generally are better.

Reply 55

tillytots

What about the second/third/fourth times which are still in that awkward **** stage? So you go to a hooker, it's your first time, you'll still be rubbish after that.

Reply 56

ipixie

I think you should wait and find the right person.. Maybe try and do something to boost your confidence? You will probably enjoy it more if it's with someone you really want it to be with.

Reply 57

M1F2R3

You should really wait, then again if she is fit... go for it.

Reply 58

Jenny_Jazz

Plus your first time might be over before you know it, you sure you want to spend money in that case?

Reply 59

tom tom

just WAIT.... i know your probably hurt from the rejection, but you really shouldnt be ashamed to be a virgin, i mean i know your a guy and everything but its really NOT a biggy at what age you lose it (regardless of what other boys say)... you'll probs end up regretting having slept with some1 you dont know for the first time...just saying! SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING!