Planning to see an escort. Male, 19, virgin.

So you're going to see a (probably Eastern European) hooker? Or maybe a crack-whore?

It's people like you who are the cause of people trafficking, modern day slavery and keeping young women in their heroin habbit. I hope you're proud of yourself.

genuinely have no idea why I quoted you! sorry no hard feelings :P

Sex isn't such a big deal, definitely not like people make it out to be. Might be worth paying for it so you can realise that.

I'd hate to lose it to an escort. With a gf, or even a one night stand, its ok to get nervous, or **** up; you an laugh it off. With someone you're paying good money for who has had more sex than you've had pizzas it's just going to be awkward :/


But ah well, do what you will.

I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.

I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.

Your post seems completely back-to-front there. If you messed up while having sex with a random girl from a nightclub on a ONS, I doubt she'd just "laugh it off", considering the reason she's having sex with you and not one of the many the other guys there is her perception of your overall confidence, charm and appeal.

Conversely, an escort is there to make it a pleasurable experience for you, any half-decent escort would try and make sure that awkward moments like you messing up in sex were immediately diffused. And any escort will likely have a fair bit of experience of dealing with virgins.

Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.

Well I am not sure what you want us to say to you.

Personally, I think you should just sick it out, your only 19, its not that big a deal.

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Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.

I laugh at the girls in this thread who are saying things like 'wait for the right person to come along blah blah, blah blah'. That doesn't happen for men who aren't 6ft tall and good looking. Full stop. Period. Unless he is able to approach women he will be alone forever (or forever alone, whichever you prefer) and even then his odds aren't that great. It's cold but it's the truth.

Just do what I do and what others have suggested and just forget about women and stop worrying, they are unobtainable anyway. Even as I type this I feel nothing, no sadness or anger or frustration but I will admit that for about one second everyday I feel worried that I will let my guard down and begin to feel those emotions again.

True. All the people who tell virgins or OP to 'wait' are not virgins themselves. Ive noticed this trend occurs all the time on tsr.

I am against the OP idea of losing virginity to an escourt, although i can empathise with how frustrating being a virgin can be due to having curiousity of what sex must be like, and having to live in a society where sex is in your face in the media all the time or many of your mates are non virgins

Still, id advise you not to lose it to an escourt , op for reasons already stated by other people.

Probably the closest he has ever come to female contact.

Edit: Actually that's quite mean. But I somehow cannot seem to bring myself to press the delete button.

Well I doubt I'd ever have a ONS with a girl I didn't know pretty well in the first place.