Blown it by falling asleep on him

You should have explained why you dozed off...

But none the less, that is incredibly rude of him.
Are you sure you even want to be dating a guy like that???

Just tell him you'll be sleeping with him as opposed to on him next time He'll call!

Just tell him you'll be sleeping with him as opposed to on him next time He'll call!

How did you know it was Harry Potter...?



Anyway, just went to see him (lives two streets away) - explained that I found our dinner interesting and enjoyed his company, but I was just so tired from not sleeping for three days and found the cinema restful and comfortable, that I fell asleep for reasons not due to him.

He smiled, then laughed, then said, "Well, thank **** for that - I really enjoyed your company too, was horrified when I thought I'd been so boring you fell asleep."

We've arranged a second date to somewhere that will be more active so there should be no more falling asleep. Thanks everybody who told me to explain it to him; I felt too embarrassed to but, like some of you said, nothing to lose.

For people saying it was rude of him - it wasn't. I'd be mortified if a girl fell asleep on a date and wouldn't wanna know unless she had a really good excuse.

So call him, tell him you've insomnia, hadn't slept for 3 days, dark room and you dozed off, you do like him and "lets just avoid the cinema next time" then laugh. He'll come 'round.

I have no mobile phone, so technically no ... but I get your point.

Thing is how do you convince someone who clearly thinks, "I was so boring, she fell asleep rather than spend time with me"?

Try and see it from his point of view. He was just being honest, it's not rude. If a girl fell alseep on a first date with me I'd think exactly the same.

Without meaning to generalise, a lot (not all, of course) of you girls on TSR fail to consider what it must be like from the guy's (in these type of situations) point of view. You should try it, because I think it'd help you figure stuff out.

You don't have a mobile..... what?!?
Have I fallen into a timewarp or a troll?

I have insomnia - pretty bad and, until earlier today (which I'll be coming to), I hadn't slept at all in three days.

So, went out with a guy I've liked for a while. First date to the cinema ... and, because it's a warm and dark place, and the background noise is quite comforting, I fall asleep. Making it worse, I actually lean away from him and towards the wall.

He wakes me up a couple of hours later and, when I blearily ask him when it's starting, he coughs politely and informs me it's actually finished. Silent drive home and, at the end of it, he says, "Um, to be honest this hasn't been a great success - probably won't be calling you."

Well, what could I say? It hadn't been.

FML.

I have insomnia - pretty bad and, until earlier today (which I'll be coming to), I hadn't slept at all in three days.

So, went out with a guy I've liked for a while. First date to the cinema ... and, because it's a warm and dark place, and the background noise is quite comforting, I fall asleep. Making it worse, I actually lean away from him and towards the wall.

He wakes me up a couple of hours later and, when I blearily ask him when it's starting, he coughs politely and informs me it's actually finished. Silent drive home and, at the end of it, he says, "Um, to be honest this hasn't been a great success - probably won't be calling you."

Well, what could I say? It hadn't been.

FML.

when I first saw this thread, I thought it was going to go down a whole different route...

slightly dissappointed I have to say

First of all - LMAO. Secondly, if you don't sleep for three days, you die. So that's false.