Girls would u mind if he got the camera rolling during sex?

My bf jus asked me if we could do this next time :O i actually didn’t know what to say, he said he would love to watch it back :s-smilie:

i trust him but don’t know if i would feel comfortable if he filmed it :s-smilie:

I was gona go anon but **** it i really need some good advice :smile:

thanks in advance

(edited 13 years ago)

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Reply 1

karateworm

Think about this. If it (heaven forbids) goes horribly wrong and you hate each other... you really don't want him to have footage of you getting jiggy :s-smilie:

Reply 2

username47781

If you ain't comfortable tell him no, if he don't like it, then he's no good for you.

Reply 3

secret_smile

Use YOUR camera, watch it back with him and then delete it.
If he asks for a copy just refuse.
Kinky videos and pictures can be fun as long as you are sensible and keep them strictly between you and your partner.

Reply 4

BBYoungLady

Nope.

Done it a few times with my lover. We watched it and deleted it straight away.

Reply 5

I-love-life

Original post by secret_smile

hey thanks for this :smile:

yh i might do that but Im scared if he thinks i don't trust him, we've been together for nearly two years and I don't wana hurt his feelings, I will suggest this to him and hopefully he won't mind :smile:

Reply 6

joey11223

hmm...personal pornography. Although it may well be an innocent enough I'd be concerned that it's going to be permanent. If you had a bad break-up he could post it online. Even if you do break-up and things are quite civil, I suppose you'd have to think about how you'd feel knowing he could still be watching that recording years down the line, a trophy if you will.

Reply 7

Pink Bullets

Yes, happily, if in a serious relationship with that person.

Nooo.

Original post by Rock Fan

If you ain't comfortable tell him no, if he don't like it, then he's no good for you.

No good for you, like a Houlier managing Villa.

He needs to go, right?

Reply 10

technik

Please do. Tell him to post the results on 4chan for us to lulz at.

Reply 11

Cicerao

I wouldn't if he at least made me aware of the camera's existence beforehand.

Reply 12

FattyInNeed

You will end up on youji$$.

I promise you.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

If you are really uncomfortable with it you could use a big(ish) mirror as an alternative.

That way your bf gets to watch the action, but you don't produce any footage :p:

If you don't want it to seem like you don't trust him, instead of saying "can we use a mirror instead" just surprise him with the mirror idea. Then he'll be more likely to be happy/pleased with your effort rather than focusing on what you didn't let him do.

I recently saw myself having sex in the mirror (courtesy of my bf), it was... interesting.

Reply 14

shy-girl666

Original post by I-love-life

My bf jus asked me if we could do this next time :O i actually didn’t know what to say, he said he would love to watch it back :s-smilie:

i trust him but don’t know if i would feel comfortable if he filmed it :s-smilie:

I was gona go anon but fck it i really need some good advice :smile:

thanks in advance

Original post by karateworm

Think about this. If it (heaven forbids) goes horribly wrong and you hate each other... you really don't want him to have footage of you getting jiggy :s-smilie:

yeah i'd have to agree with this. and you dont want him to be able to have something to use against you. but if you feel ok with it then fine but personally i wouldn't go there.
after all there is plenty of other things that you both could do :colondollar:

good luck and have fun :h:

Reply 15

Alt__x

xxx

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Reply 16

I-love-life

Original post by Alt__x

I notice you had a thread earlier about your dad's pretty severe sanctions for going to a nightclub. Let's just say this got back to your dad, it would make things even worse.

i know, in fact if sees this thread or any of texts haha he would kill me, he won't even think about it, but anyway I don't think my bf would ever do anything stupid with the vid! I'm jus worried that i might feel uncomfortable knowing that we gna watch it back

Reply 17

I-love-life

Original post by Anonymous

If you are really uncomfortable with it you could use a big(ish) mirror as an alternative.

That way your bf gets to watch the action, but you don't produce any footage :p:

hey thanks for ur suggestion,, I don't think i can have sex and watch myself in the mirror at the same time lol

Reply 18

LemonKitty

Well I'd be the more likely one to suggest it so no I wouldn't mind :tongue:

It wouldn't bother me if he wanted the copy too because I definitely trust him and know he would never put it on the internet or anything weird. If we did happen to break up I'd just make sure he deleted it, which he would.

Have fun!

Reply 19