I mean, for shy people, how in what way should you or can you just be happy being single?
It's dumb, I'm one of those people who thinks that a relationship would make me happier (note,
happier, I am not
incomplete without one). However, considering I have a select few friends at university, how can I possibly just continue to wait for someone else to come along again?
I've had a girlfriend, that ended ages ago this year, and she and her new boyfriend are both in my university and I see them
constantly... it makes me think how much happier I actually was during a relationship and makes me crave (not need) one once more.
Recently, I did start liking a girl but I realised, once I started to talk to her properly, that it honestly wasn't ever going to work. Frustrated, I realised that I had put a lot of emphasis on the girl before I'd even met her.
I know that I should go for it once I have chemistry or a spark with someone, but it just seems like that will never happen again. Hell, it took 18 years for it to happen the first time... someone console me please.
I need advice from people who may have experienced this.