I’m better off without them. What do you guys think?

Hey
I have been friends with a group of girls for a year. I met them last year at college and we got on fine. Through out the year they all got close to each other, but i didn’t get as close to them. However I was still invited to any event they planned. Now we are all in A2 and have some similar lessons together i still hang around with them and go on lunch breaks together. But I feel like they don’t want me to hang out with them anymore. they exclude me in their conversations and have nick names for each other and share personal jokes. Yesterday we were in the common room they all sat and formed this kind of a circle and completely left me out. They don’t ever let me engage in their conversations. I try to make an effort but they cut me out and start talking about something completely different. They have arranged at night out for next week and I was invited to this, one of the girls facebooked me sayin “hey we’re going out next week, i know you might not want to come but i still thought i let you know” i told her next day that I won’t go because I want to get ready for my mock exams and I am not prepared for them. Another reason that I didn’t want to go out with them next week is because I know they will completely ignore me on the night and it will a waste of money and effort what the hell! they invite me to events but they don’t talk to me at college. This whole ignoring me started at the end of AS, and it is getting worse everyday. Even today during lunch break i felt like crying, i just sit with them quietly as they don’t give me a chance to talk today I realised maybe I should just stop hanging out with them but I haven’t done anything wrong to these girls, I am not a bitchy person and I have nothing against them. I am also not being paranoid about this situation as other people in my college have noticed it too and asked me if everything between us was ok. I don’t really know why they are being like this. I’m not socially awkward or anything I get on and make conversations with other people really well, but these girls are making me feel left out and unsociable.. Do you guys think i should ask them why they are treating me like this? Or should i just leave them and not hang out with them?? I’m really confused and upset. Don’t really know what i should do

whenever I'm with these girls I feel like s*** and want to cry, I've been thinking about any possibilities why they are all acting like this towards me but I really can't see any reasons. It's really bothering me,

I think you've posted this on the wrong forum...

why??

Girls can be right bitches

Tl;dr can't you just sum it up in bullet points or something.

Hey
I have been friends with a group of girls for a year. I met them last year at college and we got on fine. Through out the year they all got close to each other, but i didn’t get as close to them. However I was still invited to any event they planned. Now we are all in A2 and have some similar lessons together i still hang around with them and go on lunch breaks together. But I feel like they don’t want me to hang out with them anymore. they exclude me in their conversations and have nick names for each other and share personal jokes. Yesterday we were in the common room they all sat and formed this kind of a circle and completely left me out. They don’t ever let me engage in their conversations. I try to make an effort but they cut me out and start talking about something completely different. They have arranged at night out for next week and I was invited to this, one of the girls facebooked me sayin “hey we’re going out next week, i know you might not want to come but i still thought i let you know” i told her next day that I won’t go because I want to get ready for my mock exams and I am not prepared for them. Another reason that I didn’t want to go out with them next week is because I know they will completely ignore me on the night and it will a waste of money and effort what the hell! they invite me to events but they don’t talk to me at college. This whole ignoring me started at the end of AS, and it is getting worse everyday. Even today during lunch break i felt like crying, i just sit with them quietly as they don’t give me a chance to talk today I realised maybe I should just stop hanging out with them but I haven’t done anything wrong to these girls, I am not a bitchy person and I have nothing against them. I am also not being paranoid about this situation as other people in my college have noticed it too and asked me if everything between us was ok. I don’t really know why they are being like this. I’m not socially awkward or anything I get on and make conversations with other people really well, but these girls are making me feel left out and unsociable.. Do you guys think i should ask them why they are treating me like this? Or should i just leave them and not hang out with them?? I’m really confused and upset. Don’t really know what i should do

whenever I'm with these girls I feel like s*** and want to cry, I've been thinking about any possibilities why they are all acting like this towards me but I really can't see any reasons. It's really bothering me,

Just completely ignore them and make other friends.. Or just hang out with your other friends (Assuming you have other friends?) They're being complete idiots to you, so why should you even bother with them? They clearly don't deserve your friendship.

just for u
my friends at college are ignoring me
i hang out with them but:
they exclude me in their convos
don’t give me a chance to talk
they basically hate me but i haven’t done anything to them

Well women can be bitchy like that. Just tell them to **** off or if they are valuable friends just as then straight up why they are being bitches to you. If they don't hive a satisfactory answer or stop then ditch them. Have you done anything that might have upset them in any way.