first off,i feel this is obviously more geared to your tastes,long hair isnt at all unattractive - those 70/80s rockstars may disagree with you on that........but regardless my gf has always loved it.
and,you havent given any advice that we dont already know.you've basically described the typical ******* guy,cocky,athletic,and messes you around like a woman.
you are without doubt probably one of those women who moan that there are no decent guys,and then goes after these people.especially as you seem to despise the 'nice guy' mentality.
regarding the latter points of your posts,basically you're telling people to play constant mindgames,this isnt neccesary if the woman in question isnt doing so.(some people..........you know.........like to be just themselves)