Oh dear, boyfriend has slept with EVERYBODY.

My boyfriend was like that. Lost it at 13, and has been with now 5/6 girls I think? Myself included. And he had the cheek to call me a slag.

...it didn't end well.

Are they your friends as well?

To all the people who say "He'll obviously cheat on you." just ignore them. When he was single he may have slept around, as most men do. They're not all going to say "No, I'm waiting for the one."

Before I met my girlfriend I had slept around a bit which did worry my gf a little bit because I was her only one. After a messy (short-term) break up we both slept around a bit but at the end of the day we loved each other so we put it in the past. If you can't put someone's sexual history in the past, then it probably won't work out. But to be honest, it's only a short term problem and eventually you'll get over it. Yer it's awkward because you know the people he slept with, but would you rather you know who he slept with than not? If he's been loyal to you for a year then obviously he cares about you a lot and more than likely loves you, how would you feel if he said to you "I can't be with you because you used to be a whore before we went out."

Just give it some time, talk to him about it tbh. Just tell him your uncomfortable about it but get it out your system mostly. It hurts to ask, but if you want to know something just ask anyway and be told, you'd rather put up with the pain for a few seconds than have a prolonged worry in the back of your mind. If you still can't after a few months maybe, well then I think personally you're being a little immature on how you see relationships.

How is 5/6 people a lot? My boyfriend's number is approaching 40. Try that one.

How old is he?

Have you tried talking to him about it? Has he cheated on you? If not, I think you shouldn't judge the guy based on his past.

I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we have a great time together. Things seem to be going pretty well apart from this one thing...

He has slept with virtually every single one of his female friends, a good number of them we see on a regular basis, like at birthdays/parties/events etc...

This makes me incredibly uncomfortable, knowing that he has been intimate with all these girls and seen them all naked, gone down on them, etc, it just feels so incestuous, as in everyone has slept with everyone.

This says to me that we dont share the same views on sex. I'm not one for casual sex, but going by his track record, he appears to be willing to do it with just about anyone. I also know he's used a prostitute in the past, although he now says he'd never do that again as it was a young one-time thing.

Do you think I should leave him?

I couldn't be with someone like that to be perfectly honest. I certainly wouldn't consider a man-whore (former or otherwise) as marriage material.

You do know that they don't test you for HPV at a "full screen" right? And guys who've dipped it in every ho in town has a very high risk of having it. It's for life, and can give women persistent cervical cancer- I found this out the hard way. As far as I'm concerened, sleeping with "jack the lad" is tantamount with playing Russian Roulette with your health, fertility and potentiially, life. It may sound all melodramatic, but that's how it is for me. I wish more girls knew.

He's nearly 25.

I wouldnt have a problem with it if it actually was in his past but its not. All these girls are his friends. So they're still very much in his life.

I couldn't be with someone like that to be perfectly honest. I certainly wouldn't consider a man-whore (former or otherwise) as marriage material.

You do know that they don't test you for HPV at a "full screen" right? And guys who've dipped it in every ho in town has a very high risk of having it. It's for life, and can give women persistent cervical cancer- I found this out the hard way. As far as I'm concerened, sleeping with "jack the lad" is tantamount with playing Russian Roulette with your health, fertility and potentiially, life. It may sound all melodramatic, but that's how it is for me. I wish more girls knew.

I've asked about HPV testing (asked to be tested when I had a regular STD test) and they refused me because I had no visible symptoms. Apparantly they can't test unless you have symptoms (to take a sample from)...assuming what you meant is that you caught the virus, how did you get around this problem?

He's prob gonna cheat on you.