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how many times would you apologise to a girl over the same incident?

Say you had a minor argument with a female friend of yours, how many times would you apologise? Would once be it?

Ive apologised once and she still seems distant, but I cant be asked to chase her.

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Reply 1

Jacktri

0 times real men do not apologise

Reply 2

A_master

If you've apologised and she's not interested then there's not much more that needs to be done.

Bearing in mind we have no idea what the incident is :iiam:

Reply 3

SummerSofas

they try to pretend not to accept your apology, to see how much they mean to you and if youll chase her. chase her a bit more if you want to stay friends, but nothing OTT

Reply 4

SummerSofas

Original post by A_master

If you've apologised and she's not interested then there's not much more that needs to be done.

Bearing in mind we have no idea what the incident is :iiam:

hey man!

Reply 5

RoshniDiya

Original post by A_master

If you've apologised and she's not interested then there's not much more that needs to be done.

Bearing in mind we have no idea what the incident is :iiam:

This is the second time i've seen you pop up with that "it is a mystery" thing. You make me laughhhh!

Reply 6

Ben77mc

It's funny cos i had a situation like this earlier, but she was in the wrong to start off with, but i knida made it worse. Oops. In the end she ended up apologising and we're better.

Imo, you should just chase her up - she'll appreciate it.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 7

Hylean

Once. After that it starts to lose its meaning.

Reply 8

Rami101

0-1 depending on how bad the argument was and how much of it was your fault

Reply 9

When will I know?

Original post by SummerSofas

they try to pretend not to accept your apology, to see how much they mean to you and if youll chase her. chase her a bit more if you want to stay friends, but nothing OTT

If its a friend you shouldnt need to 'chase' her, you've already apologised.

She could just be sulking...so she may just need time to get over it... depending on how small your argument was.

If someone got really mad and shouted at me :/ id distance myself from them for a while.... also depends on whether you were close friends or not.

So just act normal and smile :biggrin:

bitches are craaazeh

It depends how close we are but, generally, once.

Reply 12

Stasiaxx

Original post by Hey TSR

Say you had a minor argument with a female friend of yours, how many times would you apologise? Would once be it?

Ive apologised once and she still seems distant, but I cant be asked to chase her.

She just wants to hear you say that you were WRONG you don't have to mean it but just say it.put lots of empathis on the word wrong.

Reply 13

kristinaalovesu

Original post by Stasiaxx

She just wants to hear you say that you were WRONG you don't have to mean it but just say it.put lots of empathis on the word wrong.

This. SOME girls like it that way.

Reply 14

JmJtr

Once (if lucky) then no more.

Reply 15

Genocidal

0 times because as men we are never wrong. :smile:

Reply 16

member569366

Never apologize more than once. Once is already a LOT.

Reply 17

Ben77mc

Original post by Glowy Amoeba

Never apologize more than once. Once is already a LOT.

I don't agree with this

Reply 18

username119464

It depends on how well you knew eachother.

What it was.

Whether you meant it the 1st time, was it convincing enough?

Also if it is really bad, sorry may not fix it, in particular if it is words over actions.