Dating etiquette first / second date

Hi

What do people expect from first dates? ....... A kiss on the first date, sex?. Who pays?

I've been on two dates with a woman in the last week. I've not made any move at all as i'm fairly sure i don't feel anything for her. What has annoyed me a little though (i know its perhaps my own fault), is that i bought all the drinks !!! .......... Whats with that. Fair enough, you an call me a tightwad, but thinking about it logically, she was in a job where she probably earned a similar amount, but she didn't even offer? for me, this was a turn off in itself.

For me, if a dates going well, i'll probably be holding hands / putting arm around her / quick kiss by at least the 2nd date ........... I'm looking for a relationship, not a one night stand, so i won't be contacting again, anyone that turns up with boobs / ass half hanging out ...... subtlety is the key ........ or that tries to sleep with me on the first few dates. I'd probably wait for at least a month until i make moves on her sexually. Also, if i don't feel she's at least contributing 25%+ to the expenses in the first few dates shes a gonner, and i'd expect this to rise to 50% after the first handful of dates.

ukguy

It's just dating rules; men should offer to pay. If a man got pissed off at me for not paying, I'd tell him where to go. If he genuinely had NO money then of course I would pay. But if you have money to spend on her, it's just common courtesy. Shows you genuinely like her.
Physically, a quick kiss is perfect for second date.

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If a girl expects you to pay for her, or offer to pay, that expectation to have things paid for won't go.