How sad is it that I am 20 years old...

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Reply 20

RELAXED

When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead. True story.

Reply 21

student568

Original post by Profesh

Evidently not: because even a short, ugly, spotty, socially-retarded computer nerd would probably have at least kissed a girl by now.

what am i then?

Reply 22

Profesh

Original post by student568

what am i then?

Unlucky.

Reply 23

Bubbles0ox

Well go out there and kiss someone then. Stop making excuses!
i have been at an all girls school/ sixth form since year 7 - year 13 and had my first kiss at 13 so going to an all boys school is no excuse

If you want to kiss someone
Just get out there!
good luck :biggrin:

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 24

sarahthegemini

I honestly don't think it's a big deal. Tbh, kissing is no big deal in itself, it's not some magic gesture that you have to have years of practise(practice?) to be able to do nicely. I bet when you actually have your first kiss, unless you accidently bite her face or something, she/he won't even know you've not kissed before.

Reply 25

student568

Original post by Bubbles0ox

Well go out there and kiss someone then. Stop making excuses!
i went to an all girls school and had my frist kiss at 13 so going to an all boys school is no excuse

Just get out there!
good luck :biggrin:

its a lot easier for a girl, thats all i'll say.

since when do you hear of girls not being able to lose their virginity or not get their first kiss or not get a boyfriend? you don't. not the case for guys.

Reply 26

Hamscrop

so do i ,it is not a big deal! and you are 20 you are a man now ,you can live alone ,cant you live without girls??have a dream then go for it ,a man who is 20 should strive for the future not for girlfriend.i always believe i will meet her one day ,and it is the same to you !
Best wishes!

Reply 27

worldscollide

Original post by student568

and never kissed a girl before? be 100% honest please.

this is the sort of stuff that you should do, or most people do, at 12 or 13 years old. and i'm 20!

i did go to a boys school and the small amount of socialising i did with girls was purely friendly.

dont know what else to say. tell me how i can change and feel free to ask me any questions. i will give an answer to all genuine non-troll replies.

fyi, i'm not the stereotypical short, ugly, spotty, socially retarded computer nerd.

it's not sad, just rather unlucky. don't worry too much about it, you'll soon be making up for lost time.

Reply 28

Pensivedore

Have you even met a girl that you like yet? Or do you just want to kiss for the sake of it?

Reply 29

damos92

TBH it's so sad that the passing of Bambi's mother completely pales in significance.

Reply 30

Physics Enemy

Original post by student568

anybody?

Not ideal is it? Time to get stuck in.

Reply 31

student568

Original post by Pensivedore

Have you even met a girl that you like yet? Or do you just want to kiss for the sake of it?

i'd have no complaints kissing an attractive girl i only met on the same evening/night out, if thats what your saying.

Reply 32

User69701

Go out. Ask to perch up onm the end of a table of some girls or something. Start chatting. Become comfortable with women after a while you'll be able to do whats needed.

Reply 33

marleyfan

Its not sad at all. Make it special. Mine was and its how I wanted it.

Reply 34

student568

Original post by marleyfan

Its not sad at all. Make it special. Mine was and its how I wanted it.

i'm not fussed about it being special. if i'm waiting for the right person, i could be waiting ages. i dont want to get to my mid 20's (potentially) and be like this so i want things to change sooner than later. so if it happens at a party with a decent looking girl i only briefly speak to, so be it.

Reply 35

effofex

Original post by student568

I'm 21 and have never kissed a girl before. So what if people do this at 12 or 13 years old.

I also went to a boys school and hardly ever socialized with girls.

I suppose you could force yourself to develop more 'female' interests and thus socialize with females and possibly get close to them in a more romantic way.

I'm also not a short, ugly, spotty, socially retarded computer nerd but I love computer games and I would always choose them over a woman.

Do you actually view kissing someone as that important - nobody laughs at me just because I haven't kissed a girl before!

Reply 36

Anonymous #1

Original post by student568

You're not the only one.

I'm 21 years old and have also done absolutely NOTHING whatsoever with a girl. I'm also not the stereotypical loser: I'm tall, muscular, have a sense of humor and have a high paying grad job in finance secured for post graduation.

Reply 37

rylit91

Original post by student568

Meh, turned 19 today and am in the same position. Not too far behind.

Reply 38

lukas1051

I'm not gonna lie, or be all wooly and cautious about it - I'm sure most people in society will agree... that is pretty sad. You're 20, it's bound to happen soon, it won't be magical or amazing you'll just be like "oh, ok, that was pretty nice".

It's pointless telling you that you need to wait, and it doesn't matter, and your first time will be special... it's nice, but it's not true.

Go to a club or a party or something, you'll have someone's tongue down your throat sooner or later.