Every girl I meet has a boyfriend :(

Jelephant is ... et cetera

No it won't. Any women who's intrigued by an idiot like that is just a bit odd to be honest.

I really wouldn't advise any other guys reading this to take any notice of this.

You might get lucky very occasionally, but generally, you'll just make the girl feel uncomfortable.

Also, girls aren't just there to be hit on, or 'broken down'.

The way you speak about women is incredibly misogynistic really.

You don't sound clued up about women at all -

how many of these girls who have supposedly fallen for your tactics have actually turned into relationships?

You're just proving my point. No self respecting girl would touch someone as nasty and pathetic like you with a barge pole. That's most probably why so many girls tell you they have a boyfriend whereas other guys in this thread apparently don't have that problem- maybe try working on your technique a little there Romeo, "creepy stalker" is out of fashion

I beg to differ.



Of course you wouldn't, because you don't want men to know the TRUTH behind the line 'I've got a boyfriend'. Women don't like it when the truth behind their games are revealed, because it takes away their manipulative power. Admit it.

I beg to differ, and my own experiences tell me otherwise.



Never said they were. But if I suspect a girl is lying to me/trying to play games with me etc, then you can bet your right arm that I WILL break her down and get her to admit the truth. I can detect bull**** from people INSTANTLY, including women, and can break it down no problem.

I base ALL my relationships on 3 things....HONESTY, TRUST and RESPECT. I say that in most of the threads I post on this site.

I like and respect women who believe in those 3 things. I DISLIKE games, lies, manipulation, dishonesty, phony/fake behaviour, disrespect, and general bull**** from women.

Riiiiightt.



I lost count years ago.

What it "can" mean...so you're speculating, basically. Perhaps you should get back to me when you've got some actual facts, instead of spouting rubbish just because its what you want to believe.

Also, why would I be "hurt" about this so-called "truth?" Makes me laugh to be honest. I've never lied about having a boyfriend, and there are plenty of other more effective ways of "testing" a guy's interest if I wanted to. Not that I ever have.

Girls who lie about having a boyfriend are probably trying to get rid of you, in my experience from observing other people, so whats the point in persevering?

Sounds like stupid game playing to me. Though by the sounds of it, that's exactly the level that you would love to stoop to.

Life isn't about "breaking girls down" either.

Women aren't toys to be knocked over the head until they give you what you want.

If he wants to be friends, fine. I like having male friends. But if a guy tries to flirt with me when I've told him that, it's just rude and objectifying. The thing is, if you just talk to a girl nicely and be a decent person, she won't have to make up a lie like that. It's the ***** who hit on girls in club and act like they are just sex objects who get that treatment.

I sympathise with the OP's problem - I'm a single girl and it seems like most guys have girlfriends, but I'm just annoyed at Neil_K's attitude to women that he's displayed in this thread.

Ah :P Calm down

Well yeah, I know hundreds of guys who just want girls as their sex objects, I've never really been into that kind of stuff
But you have to admitt that you'd give a nice, pleasant guy a chance, instead of a guy who just hits on you

Of course I would, but I wouldn't tell a nice guy that I had a boyfriend if I didn't.

Perhaps Neil_K should create a poll to see how many girls have lied about having a boyfriend.

Or.... to see how many guys have had success with a girl who orginally claimed to have a boyfriend.

I'm not speculating, I am talking from ACTUAL REAL WORLD experience. You cannot argue with ACTUAL EXPERIENCE. Read the reply I put to 'd123' above regarding my own experiences with girls who initially 'said they had a boyfriend'.



Just because YOU have never lied about having a boyfriend doesn't mean other women don't.



Here's the thing that makes your argument shaky....you talk 'from your experience of OBSERVING people'.

I talk from my ACTUAL experience of approaching and interacting with women who have told me 'I've got a boyfriend'.

How many women have you approached in your life? (I'm guessing none because I assume you are straight). Well then, you are not qualified to comment on this....

Whose experience is going to be more valid...that of someone who has ACTUALLY approached a lot of women...or that of someone who has simply OBSERVED people?

I rest my case.



I don't play games with women, or anyone. I live my life by a code of honour and base my relationships on 3 things: HONESTY, TRUST & RESPECT.

If a woman tells me she has a boyfriend when it isn't really true, SHE is the one playing games, not me.

I pride myself on TRUTH and being REAL with people....and I expect the same in return from people, including women. Which is why if I suspect a girl is lying to me about 'having a boyfriend' (or anything else), then I will get her to reveal the truth to me by breaking her down.

It would only be 'playing games' if I was dishonest with women, which I'm not. So this point is invalid.



I never said 'life is about breaking girls down'. Where did I say that? Don't put words in my mouth.



I never said they were. Again, please stop putting words in my mouth that I didn't say. Stick to the topic please.

Alright, another scenario here.
WHAT IF, a guy approaches you, best appearence you've ever seen, really good personality and you've a boyfriend. Would you a) tell him you have no boyfriend, b) tell him you have a boyfriend or c) recommend to be friends?
Honest truth.

If I've got a boyfriend I would talk to him but if he tried to make a move I would refuse and say I had a boyfriend. I'm not going to cheat on someone, just because someone else comes along. I'd be happy to have a chat and even be good friends if that's what he wanted, but nothing else.

OK listen mate , rule no.1 , DONT ask whether they ve bf or not , just assume they dont . Even if someone has a bf , if you like her , go for her coz ye she might have a bf but who knows maybe you re better than him and she might be dying on hw to ditch him and you might be exactly what she is longing for . So , as someone who has had a lot with ladies , well they seem to come in droves which is great , i understand them a lot . But ofcourse , make friendships etc and women like to be loved and made feel special , so try to do that and u ll c what will happen .
I dont mean buy them stuff , NO , but treat them well but at the same time , remember you re a man and u got to do what a man's got to do !