I Like a girl ive never meet
For the past year or so ive been chatting to a girl on the net for ages and a couple of months ago i had a dream with her in not a sexual one or anything it a dream with her. but the last few months ive become attracted to her alot more her personalty htan her look i know its a defanlty a she. i just dont know what too do we have been on about meeting up soon but summit always comes up, what should i do? and i dont want any stuipd or cocky repiles becasue i will just igore them
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have you ever met her or just chat? i met my boyfriend over facebook (we had a mutual friend who i was in halls with but he knew from back home) we just got chatting for ages, eventually he came up to see me one weekend and were still together now, nearly 10 months later 
ummm...well if you live anywhere near her, maybe suggest a meet up? That way you'll know if your attraction for her is real.
Original post by Jellybean91
have you ever met her or just chat? i met my boyfriend over facebook (we had a mutual friend who i was in halls with but he knew from back home) we just got chatting for ages, eventually he came up to see me one weekend and were still together now, nearly 10 months later
we havent meet yet no good advice thou best ive had back
I like a girl I never met lol. That makes the two of us.
I met my boyfriend on the internet (I'm Finnish, he's from the UK), met up after 6 or so months and almost 4 years later we're still together So yeah even if it starts on the internet before you've met in person it can work out, it doesn't have to be awkward at all. It'll probably be a bit weird to talk in real life after you've spent so long talking on the internet but if you like her personality it's quite likely that it won't be that different in the long run.
So yeah even if it starts on the internet before you've met in person it can work out, it doesn't have to be awkward at all. It'll probably be a bit weird to talk in real life after you've spent so long talking on the internet but if you like her personality it's quite likely that it won't be that different in the long run.
Original post by cynthialf
I met my boyfriend on the internet (I'm Finnish, he's from the UK), met up after 6 or so months and almost 4 years later we're still together So yeah even if it starts on the internet before you've met in person it can work out, it doesn't have to be awkward at all. It'll probably be a bit weird to talk in real life after you've spent so long talking on the internet but if you like her personality it's quite likely that it won't be that different in the long run.
So yeah even if it starts on the internet before you've met in person it can work out, it doesn't have to be awkward at all. It'll probably be a bit weird to talk in real life after you've spent so long talking on the internet but if you like her personality it's quite likely that it won't be that different in the long run.You met him when you were 13?
Original post by Casshern1456
I like a girl I never met lol. That makes the two of us.
Count me in, for 6 girls......
Original post by Ladipidoo
You met him when you were 13?
Just turned 14, so pretty young, thinking about it now I'm actually surprised my parents even let us meet up :P
Don't tell her you like her. Then meet up, which sould work and see where it goes. Don't rape her. 
Just ask to meet up as friends. You may find you feel differently on meeting her in real life. Spend a day together, chat, don't expect too much from it. Take it from there.
I have been in a similar situation (though I had met the guy, but only like, 3 times) and found that when we met up... I dunno, something was missing. A lack of "chemistry", as it were.
I have been in a similar situation (though I had met the guy, but only like, 3 times) and found that when we met up... I dunno, something was missing. A lack of "chemistry", as it were.
Original post by Crazy Paving
Don't rape her.
see now there's some good advice OP, it's brilliant, so simple but so...relevant.
...btw OP remember just because she doesn't actually say no, doesn't mean it's not rape if you used rohypnol/load of alcohol..or both.
But seriously Blueflare(post above this) is a great point, people can be different online then in reality. However extreme shyness in reality doesn't necessarily mean they're not the person you know online, they might need to come out of their shell.
Original post by joey11223
Original post by joey11223
see now there's some good advice OP, it's brilliant, so simple but so...relevant.
...btw OP remember just because she doesn't actually say no, doesn't mean it's not rape if you used rohypnol/load of alcohol..or both.
But seriously Blueflare(post above this) is a great point, people can be different online then in reality. However extreme shyness in reality doesn't necessarily mean they're not the person you know online, they might need to come out of their shell.
...btw OP remember just because she doesn't actually say no, doesn't mean it's not rape if you used rohypnol/load of alcohol..or both.
But seriously Blueflare(post above this) is a great point, people can be different online then in reality. However extreme shyness in reality doesn't necessarily mean they're not the person you know online, they might need to come out of their shell.
Yeah, well, OP sounded foreign and I wasn't sure whether or not he was from one of those countries where rape is legal.
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