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Seriously, it's not all about having a massive penis.
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything, but as a previous poster mentioned, certain postitions really really HURT, like from behind - I swear I can feel in ramming into my front. Doesn't help he's the first guy I've slept with and I'm physcially very petite.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know. But you'd have lots of fun trying out different sex positions I imagine.
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything, but as a previous poster mentioned, certain postitions really really HURT, like from behind - I swear I can feel in ramming into my front. Doesn't help he's the first guy I've slept with and I'm physcially very petite.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know. But you'd have lots of fun trying out different sex positions I imagine.
Original post by Addzter
Original post by Addzter
If it helps, you could always stuff your scrotum in there if your lady's not being satisfied? 
hello Jay from inbetweeners
Original post by Anonymous
There are further spots that are pleasing to rub inside a vagina that are further back from the g-spot, but generally they're not as sensitive as the first 2-3 inches as you say. Size really doesn't matter that much if you're willing to use hands/tongue etc. or explore diff positions. However I will say that having a large penis inside you gives a nice feeling of 'fullness' which can lead to a nicer orgasm in general, but it's not the be-all and end-all.
The c and a spot are pleasing to rub - and you can orgasm from them - but this is by fingering, not a penis. This is sort of advanced as most girls haven't even had a g spot orgasm.
The feeling of fullness depends on the position, the angle of thrusting, how hard - many factors - in some positions a smaller penis can feel larger, in others a larger one smaller; and also that feeling is subjective and varies from girl to girl and their own size; but as you say it really is so inconsequential a distinction as not to even make it in the first place.
The fact is penis size means nothing for pleasure - it's just looks a little better for some girls. One reason why pornstars are so large is because of how it looks and you can see the action better. A similar thing is true when guys in porn go down on girls and they do fence licking - as in they rest their head on a thigh so you can see the tongue action - it does nothing for the girl, it's just so you can see it better.
Original post by Anonymous
Seriously, it's not all about having a massive penis.
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything, but as a previous poster mentioned, certain postitions really really HURT, like from behind - I swear I can feel in ramming into my front. Doesn't help he's the first guy I've slept with and I'm physcially very petite.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know. But you'd have lots of fun trying out different sex positions I imagine.
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything, but as a previous poster mentioned, certain postitions really really HURT, like from behind - I swear I can feel in ramming into my front. Doesn't help he's the first guy I've slept with and I'm physcially very petite.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know. But you'd have lots of fun trying out different sex positions I imagine.
...says the girl who has only slept with one guy, who just happens to be well-endowed. Once you've had a few more sexpartners you will realize that you're a hardcore size-queen.
Original post by Rancorous
ITT: Sexually inexperienced people/virgins give opinions...
No penis size doesn't matter a dot.
No penis size doesn't matter a dot.
LOL. Yeah, just keep telling yourself that. Maybe you should take a look at some of the replies in this thread.
It's another proof of how important penis size is to women and how shallow they are.
I'll be kind and give them to you:
Original post by CookieDoughLove
I know this is mean, but it's my honest opinion, I generally find it a turn off.
Original post by CookieDoughLove
My friend kind of had a one night stand with a guy a bit on the small side of things.
She was so drunk and didn't hesitate in saying "where's the rest of it"
Poor guy, he left straight away apparantly.
She was so drunk and didn't hesitate in saying "where's the rest of it"
Poor guy, he left straight away apparantly.
Original post by Anonymous
Less than 6 inches to me is short (unsatisfying for sex so guy has to use tongue or fingers instead)
6-7 inches is average
Over 7 is large
And thats only length, girth is another story.
6-7 inches is average
Over 7 is large
And thats only length, girth is another story.
Original post by Anonymous
Size does matter, it just depends on whether it matters enough to dump someone over. If a girl likes you enough, or sex just isn't a massive priority for her, then she won't dump you over the size of your penis. If size matters to her more than seeing you does, she'll dump you.
A small dick is no different to finding anything unideal out about a partner.
A small dick is no different to finding anything unideal out about a partner.
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know.
I'm not going to lie - if your penis is less than 5 inches, then it is on the small side and you'd have to work extra hard to make it's presence, er, know.
Original post by Anonymous
If we're talking pure sexual pleasure, however, a smaller willy gives less sensation. Men don't like to aknowledge that but it's the truth. My boyfriend's is significantly smaller than my ex's, and I do have to fake most of the pleasure with him, and many positions are impossible.
Anonymous
There are further spots that are pleasing to rub inside a vagina that are further back from the g-spot, but generally they're not as sensitive as the first 2-3 inches as you say. However I will say that having a large penis inside you gives a nice feeling of 'fullness' which can lead to a nicer orgasm in general.
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Original post by INTJ
A lot of it 
If you're ever out with a large group of friends and the subject comes up, the girls, in a drunkenly fit, will say "THE BIGGER THE BETTER"
If you're ever out with a large group of friends and the subject comes up, the girls, in a drunkenly fit, will say "THE BIGGER THE BETTER"So true.
Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
And it's hardly a coincidence that nearly all women will say that they've slept with a guy, who was too small for their liking.
Original post by Mr.j1
So true.
Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
And it's hardly a coincidence that nearly all women will say that they've slept with a guy, who was too small for their liking.
Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
And it's hardly a coincidence that nearly all women will say that they've slept with a guy, who was too small for their liking.
I don't understand - are you trolling? Yes I read the responses and I'm well aware of the female anatomy - nowhere does anyone say penis size is important for pleasure and any girl who did would be sexually inexperienced.
It's female anatomy 101 - all the pleasure is linked to the clitoris which runs nerves like tentacles to the vagina - most nerves are concentrated in the first few inches of the vagina - beyond that there is little sensation.
If you aren't trolling, are you a virgin? If not, have you ever made a girl cum when she hasn't been faking? On a regular basis? How many partners have you had?
Original post by Mr.j1
It's another proof of how important penis size is to women and how shallow they are.
What is shallow about having a preference? Just like men don't like a loose vag on a girl doesn't make them shallow, it just feels nicer.
Original post by Rancorous
The c and a spot are pleasing to rub - and you can orgasm from them - but this is by fingering, not a penis. This is sort of advanced as most girls haven't even had a g spot orgasm.
The feeling of fullness depends on the position, the angle of thrusting, how hard - many factors - in some positions a smaller penis can feel larger, in others a larger one smaller; and also that feeling is subjective and varies from girl to girl and their own size; but as you say it really is so inconsequential a distinction as not to even make it in the first place.
The feeling of fullness depends on the position, the angle of thrusting, how hard - many factors - in some positions a smaller penis can feel larger, in others a larger one smaller; and also that feeling is subjective and varies from girl to girl and their own size; but as you say it really is so inconsequential a distinction as not to even make it in the first place.
True but there is a major difference between say a 5inch and 8inch for a girl. LIke this girl said...
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriend has a 7.5" penis (yes we whipped out a tape and measured, hah that was funny) and it looks nice and big and everything, but as a previous poster mentioned, certain postitions really really HURT, like from behind - I swear I can feel in ramming into my front. Doesn't help he's the first guy I've slept with and I'm physcially very petite.
My boyfriend is 8inches and it hurts a lot, makes sex boring as only one or two positions are comfortable.
Size is important to some degree, but nowhere near as much as some people seem to think it is.
Original post by Mr.j1
So true.
Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
And it's hardly a coincidence that nearly all women will say that they've slept with a guy, who was too small for their liking.
Sometimes I wonder why guys who have less than 7 inches even try to get sex. You know she's going to be disappointed when she sees it, and you know that she's not going to enjoy it as much as she would if you were big. You're setting yourself up for failure and ridicule, so it's pointless.
And it's hardly a coincidence that nearly all women will say that they've slept with a guy, who was too small for their liking.
quick question, and it's not really related to this quote in particular, but have you ever actually been turned down by a girl right before you're about to have sex when they saw your penis?
the way you go on about it, i'm curious as to what experiences you have? are you a virgin?
Original post by Anonymous
True but there is a major difference between say a 5inch and 8inch for a girl. LIke this girl said...
My boyfriend is 8inches and it hurts a lot, makes sex boring as only one or two positions are comfortable.
Size is important to some degree, but nowhere near as much as some people seem to think it is.
My boyfriend is 8inches and it hurts a lot, makes sex boring as only one or two positions are comfortable.
Size is important to some degree, but nowhere near as much as some people seem to think it is.
Of course, I was dealing with a lack of size because it's an issue of insecurity for a lot of men. But as you say a large penis - 7 inches and over, can be painful depending on the girl and limits the positions you can do and it can ram the cervix. Even a 6 inch penis can be a little painful for some girls in some positions/angles/thrusts.
The question doesn't really have a definitive answer, it's totally contextual. Unfortunately some girls i've run into do think that size is the most important thing, and more often than not it turns out that they've actually had very little good sex.
My John Thomas isn't huge by any stretch of the imagination, but in my experiences i've found it's a lot more important that you know what to do with your tools. Length also isn't the only factor, girth can also play a big role in the pleasure a girl gets from sex, there's no point having a 9 inch penis that's as thin as a pencil.
So yes, there are some girls you'll run into who will treat size as a huge important issue, particularly when they're drunk, just like how lads can be dicks when it comes to tit size. If you're in a relationship with a girl and you both love each other, then your size shouldn't be a problem.
Keep in mind, most studies find the average penis size is between 5 to 6 inches depending on who you ask.
My John Thomas isn't huge by any stretch of the imagination, but in my experiences i've found it's a lot more important that you know what to do with your tools. Length also isn't the only factor, girth can also play a big role in the pleasure a girl gets from sex, there's no point having a 9 inch penis that's as thin as a pencil.
So yes, there are some girls you'll run into who will treat size as a huge important issue, particularly when they're drunk, just like how lads can be dicks when it comes to tit size. If you're in a relationship with a girl and you both love each other, then your size shouldn't be a problem.
Keep in mind, most studies find the average penis size is between 5 to 6 inches depending on who you ask.
Original post by Anonymous
What is shallow about having a preference? Just like men don't like a loose vag on a girl doesn't make them shallow, it just feels nicer.
Are you kidding me?
Preference, my ass. Most women have it as a demand/requirement.
And you're basically saying that guys are crap in bed (or just not as good) because they aren't well-endowed.
Anonymous
True but there is a major difference between say a 5inch and 8inch for a girl. LIke this girl said...
And girls wonder why so many men are insecure about their penis size
Anonymous
Size is important to some degree, but nowhere near as much as some people seem to think it is.
Backpedalling already?
Original post by Rancorous
I don't understand - are you trolling? Yes I read the responses and I'm well aware of the female anatomy - nowhere does anyone say penis size is important for pleasure and any girl who did would be sexually inexperienced.
It's female anatomy 101 - all the pleasure is linked to the clitoris which runs nerves like tentacles to the vagina - most nerves are concentrated in the first few inches of the vagina - beyond that there is little sensation.
If you aren't trolling, are you a virgin? If not, have you ever made a girl cum when she hasn't been faking? On a regular basis? How many partners have you had?
It's female anatomy 101 - all the pleasure is linked to the clitoris which runs nerves like tentacles to the vagina - most nerves are concentrated in the first few inches of the vagina - beyond that there is little sensation.
If you aren't trolling, are you a virgin? If not, have you ever made a girl cum when she hasn't been faking? On a regular basis? How many partners have you had?
Listen, if you want to live in denial then be my guest. I'd rather trust the women on this issue.
Original post by Drumzilla
quick question, and it's not really related to this quote in particular, but have you ever actually been turned down by a girl right before you're about to have sex when they saw your penis?
No.
Original post by Mr.j1
Preference, my ass. Most women have it as a demand/requirement.
Most women? Who the hell are you hanging out with? All my girly friends are not so demanding about it. The only girls Iknow that have said 'big dicks only!!11' are ones that have had bad sex.
And you're basically saying that guys are crap in bed (or just not as good) because they aren't well-endowed.
No I'm not. Small penis doesn't mean you're crap in bed.And girls wonder why so many men are insecure about their penis size
Er ditto for women with small titties.
Backpedalling already?
If you read my original post you'll see I haven't changed my stance.Original post by Mr.j1
Listen, if you want to live in denial then be my guest. I'd rather trust the women on this issue.
Could you answer the questions if you're going to peddle this bile; are you a virgin? how many partners have you had? have you made a girl cum? on a regular basis?
Original post by Anonymous
Most women? Who the hell are you hanging out with? All my girly friends are not so demanding about it. The only girls Iknow that have said 'big dicks only!!11' are ones that have had bad sex.
There is plenty of evidence out there. Sexsurveys, dating sites, magazines, studies, forums like thes3.
Not so demanding? So they still have demands?
Anonymous No I'm not. Small penis doesn't mean you're crap in bed.
No I'm not. Small penis doesn't mean you're crap in bed.But they're still not as good as the well-endowed guys, simply because they're lacking inches (which you said yourself).
Anonymous
Er ditto for women with small titties.
So now you're changing the subject?
If you want to go down that route, then you should know that you can't compare tits with dicks. Penis size has a gigantic impact on her sexual pleasure, but big or small tits aren't going to make the sex any better or worse for him.
Anonymous If you read my original post you'll see I haven't changed my stance.
If you read my original post you'll see I haven't changed my stance.You're right. "Big dicks are better". Just stop with the semi-condescending: "but it's not the be all and end all".
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