Boyfriend has to see ex wife, should I be worried?

I know but I doubt they've agreed to this.

I would be worried, ex-sex is the best.

can't be bothered to go through the smilies to see if there is one but...

*confused, disbelief blinking face*

he's old enough to be your dad and he abused his position of trust as your driving instructor, not sure if it falls into the same category of student-teacher inappropriateness but it is innapropriate. If you're gonna be with someone with so much baggage (ex wife) you need to deal with it or find someone your own age!

.....He doesn't have kids your age as well does he?

her age seems to be of benefit here.

I mean 17 yr old pussy vs 40 year old?

Oh stop being so judgmental....I'm 17 not 12....we've both thought this through and the gap doesn't matter. I've always liked older men, 3-+, I don't like guys my age at all, n I think most girls are the same in that they prefer older men. So what if he's in his 40s...you can't help who you fall for. And no he didn't 'abuse his position of trust'....it was a mutual attraction and we got to know each other over a period of a few months. So you can just keep your opinions to yourself. Are you saying you've never fallen for an older man? Plus a lot of older men are gonna be divorced/have kids, its the way life goes dear.

He does have kids, he's got a 19 yr old daughter and a son who's a few years older than her....not met them yet but they know about me and my bf says they were shocked at first but are now ok with it so guess I'll meet them in time....scary tho!

At the end of the day, once you're 16 or over you can date who you want and I go for older men.

She's more experienced sexually than me :-( Are you saying there's a chance he'll have 'ex sex' with her one last time? I hope not :-(

she is over 16, so yes. they can even get married (with consent from her parents)

just icky

well, my point was, it is 100% legal for them to date/have sex

so to answer your original q , "yes it is legal"

but I am also interested in if her parents know (I doubt, I would laugh iif her parents were same age as him lol)

Oh stop being so judgmental....I'm 17 not 12....we've both thought this through and the gap doesn't matter. I've always liked older men, age 30+, I don't like guys my age at all, n I think most girls are the same in that they prefer older men. So what if he's in his 40s...you can't help who you fall for. And no he didn't 'abuse his position of trust'....it was a mutual attraction and we got to know each other over a period of a few months. So you can just keep your opinions to yourself. Are you saying you've never fallen for an older man? Plus a lot of older men are gonna be divorced/have kids, its the way life goes dear.

He does have kids, he's got a 19 yr old daughter and a son who's a few years older than her....not met them yet but they know about me and my bf says they were shocked at first but are now ok with it so guess I'll meet them in time....scary tho!

At the end of the day, once you're 16 or over you can date who you want and I go for older men.

My mum knows, she was angry with me at first but has finally sort of accepted it cos I'm over 17n nearly 18 and she can see I'm happy, my dad doesn't know cos he doesn't meddle in my business so he only knows I've got a bf but knows nothing of the age and to be honest it's gonna be a while before they meet him anyway so it really doesn't matter. Yeh erm my bf is actually a couple of years older than my dad but as I said the age doesn't mean a thing.

well, my point was, it is 100% legal for them to date/have sex

so to answer your original q , "yes it is legal"

but I am also interested in if her parents know (I doubt, I would laugh iif her parents were same age as him lol)

I'm 17, bf is in his 40s. I fink his ex wife is about 39 or something, why?

N I DO trust him, just feels weird that he's gonna be with another woman while I'm not there I guess. Been together about 6 weeks now, but known him for over 6 months as he was/is my driving instructor.

with parental consent. Without, i thought you'd have to be 18. Good chance they are. Lol

Why you going out with a 40 year old :P ... oh and don't you actually know his age... because you said 40's

re-read.

it is 100% legal for them to date/have sex right now.

Why you going out with a 40 year old :P ... oh and don't you actually know his age... because you said 40's

his luck. Perhaps i should consider a career in driving instructor once i retire