I want a "gf" without the love. / emotionally frustrated?

It will be very difficult to find someone who shares your.. unusual views. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it will be hard. You know it's hard to do all those romantic things such as kissing and hugging etc. without actually loving someone. I mean, it would be a bit fake, wouldn't it? Most people expect some form of commitment, instead of just being like 'Oh let's make out, go on holiday together but don't forget that there is no love or commitment between us!'

It will be very difficult to find someone who shares your.. unusual views. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it will be hard. You know it's hard to do all those romantic things such as kissing and hugging etc. without actually loving someone. I mean, it would be a bit fake, wouldn't it? Most people expect some form of commitment, instead of just being like 'Oh let's make out, go on holiday together but don't forget that there is no love or commitment between us!'

So you want a **** buddy?

I will elaborate.

I'm sure you've liked someone but there was something about them that means it just wouldn't work? so you like them to a degree, just don't love them.

I just happen to miss other aspects of being in a relationship besides sex (which to answer someone else's question, I wanted to make the distinction that **** buddies are just that, the sex is the main thing, heck a lot of people don't even like their sex buddies, but I doubt many go off on dates with them)

so I mean, I just miss the physical aspects of holding someone.

(I know anon fail, but seriously? needing approval for every ****ing post?)

If you found someone like this, wouldn't you mind them being in a relationship with someone else at the same time? Even if that relationship was on the same basis as it is between you and them.

But you're saying that you want a normal relationship but without the feelings? Is that even possible? Surey kissing/holding each other would be natural because you love someone; it's not normally something you do just for the sake of it with any person you can grab off the street!

ergh, are people even reading?

Yes, actually, "people" ARE reading, and are also taking their OWN TIME to reply to your stupid thread! So don't be so rude!

going to add more;

it removes a lot of the bull**** that can come with a relationship.

I'm pretty sure a lot of people are ALREADY in the very situation I described, but they aren't true to themselves.

The guy who lie to girls, to get them into bed. To put up with their crap again to bed them.

The girls who fool themselves that they love the guy (When it's been all of 2 days and all he did was pay you attention and get you flowers)

I mean, must it really be Friends (least the friends I have) = no flirting/no touching/nothing. Platonic to the max.

or 'you gotta promise you are never going to look at another girl, call me everyday blah blah blah' in order to do something more.

I'm not saying you just pick any old random, but someone you like, but let's say they tick 7 out of 10 boxes you need for a boyfried, why not just 'settle' for the time-being? saves being bored on a weekend when you could be out doing something.

she's free. she can do as she likes.

I have kinda been in a similar situation, there was this girl I used to have sex with, and we did kinda hang out a little bit, (granted she was a alcoholic + cocane using girl) and she used to tell me about the guys she was dating.