Hello,
Long story short, at the beginning of this academic year, I got myself a job.
At this job I met this girl whos just lovely. Shes intelligent, funny, shes gorgeous, and I think in many ways shes like my ideal girl.
We get on really well, we're always flirting (ie. shes always flirting with me and I flirt back, and initiate some flirting too). I'm always making her laugh, and likewise.
She seems quite shy around me, was play fighting with me over the last few weeks, and has been giving off signals, which I'm pretty sure I've not misread. Thing is shes quite a good girl, studious, doesn't spend her entire life clubbing, or getting with guys, like shes waiting for someone she really wants to be with, which is why I think the following happened...
So, the other day we had our xmas do, which she was pretty adamant she wasn't going to go to, and tbh i wasn't too keen on either. I went along, only cause she agreed to come when I said 'i'll go if you do
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So we're there talking, still laughing at each others jokes, she spends a lot of time looking into my eyes. Party itself was quite rubbish. Then near the end of the night (a few minutes before I left while waiting for my taxi) I ask her out.
Her reaction was first to ask me to repeat myself, as I think she was a little shocked or couldn't hear me over the music, she got REALLY shy and just tried to buy some time, she had a bit of a nervous giggle. She then goes something along the lines of 'I've got uni all next week. sorry. oops I feel a bit awkward now'. All this was said like in a rush, like she didn't really know what to say. To which I replied 'ok fair enough' as well as i could to make it seem like no big thing, gave her a hug, by which point my cab was here, and left.
I'm not sure what I did wrong. I'm definitely going to play it cool, and just carry on as we have in the last couple of weeks (tone it down a touch perhaps), but basically pretend nothing happened.
Not really planning on talking or acknowledging it, and if she does I'm planning on just being like 'hey it's alright. I asked you out, you said no, life goes on really.' and just joke it off a little (not as in i was joking when asking you out, but 'oh well, **** happens' kinda thing).
Sound like a plan? anyone able to spot where I went wrong?
Thanks!