It hurts so much not being able to have sex :(

Hello I’m 21 and a girl.the two main reasons that I’m not having sex are 1)not in a serious relationship right now and 2) my religion (i don't really follow it though :s-smilie:

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I masturbate and it hurts every single cell of my body when every part of me wants it so much and I am unable to receive any :frown:

any advice

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Reply 1

lonely14

You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex. :sexface:

Reply 2

hanaa-

Original post by lonely14

You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex. :sexface:

yes I know but I'm still a V and don't want to lose it on a one night stand :frown:

Reply 3

username234673

Original post by hanaa-

yes I know but I'm still a V and don't want to lose it on a one night stand :frown:

I had a two night stand once. That was interesting.

Doing it wrong.

Jeeeeezzzzz what's wrong with you kids!!!!!!!!!!! can't think of anything else?????
W A I T, for Christ's sake!!!!!!!!

Reply 6

lonely14

Original post by hanaa-

yes I know but I'm still a V and don't want to lose it on a one night stand :frown:

Oh sorry. You should have told us that you're virgin. :colondollar:

Well than there is no point losing it to some random strangers. Maybe the best option would be to wait for the right person. :h:

What religion do you follow out of interest? :holmes:

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 7

zxh800

2) my religion (i don't really follow it though :s-smilie:

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If you don't follow it why do you let it stop you? Make a decision. Either you think that religion is correct or you think it's wrong.

If you really think it hurts so much not being able to have sex, go on then go have sex.

Reply 8

SuperSam_Fantastiche

You want sex now.

You want to lose it in a serious relationship.

You're not in a serious relationship.

One of your values is going to have to be compromised.

Reply 9

xokimberley

How can you know what you're missing if you haven't had it! it's lovely & all, but i reckon the best part of it is being with someone you lurrrve :wink:

also lots of self loving means you know what you want and can show whoever you choose how :wink:

Reply 10

hanaa-

Original post by lonely14

Oh sorry. You should have told us that you're virgin. :colondollar:

Well than there is no point losing it to some random strangers. Maybe the best option would be to wait for the right person. :h:

What religion do you follow out of interest? :holmes:

Islam don't really follow everything it says

Reply 11

lonely14

Original post by hanaa-

Islam don't really follow everything it says

Oh OK.

Well, its up to you really what you want to do. Best thing would be to wait and lose it to someone you actually love.

As a Muslim myself, I can undertsand. I'm 18 and a virgin :biggrin:

Though I never had much urge for sex anyway. :s-smilie:

Reply 12

lefneosan

Original post by lonely14

You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex. :sexface:

A fantastic contribution

Reply 13

My Life

Maybe just take yourself aaway from dey topic

Reply 14

member569366

Don't torture yourself with religion, you'll regret missing out on life experiences it when you're all senile and shriveled up

Reply 15

ithoughtofthis

Original post by mikeyd85

I had a two night stand once. That was interesting.

Rawrrr.

+ Rep. Im still laughing and thinking about that

Reply 16

Spetznaaz

Original post by hanaa-

yes I know but I'm still a V and don't want to lose it on a one night stand :frown:

Good. Don't become a slag, just wait till you have a partner.. and seeing as your a girl if you really want a bf it is definitely not hard :smile:

Reply 17

Kerr Avon

Take up a hobby to take your mind off sex!!! How about clay pigeon shooting? Or railway modelling? Or (OK this isn't going to work). Seriously, WHY are you so desperate for sex????