My Boyfriend Read My Chatlogs!

Basically, I had a laptop between the years of 2006-2009, which eventually died (I use them far too much!).. it was just sitting under my bed for ages and ages but my boyfriend said that he could probably get me a little bit of cash selling it for parts.

I told him I'd have to delete everything off it, but didn't know how because I couldn't switch it on, to which he replied that he would sort it all out and not to worry.

Anyway, he did some magic thing with the harddrive to revive everything that I had stored on it.. and looked through EVERYTHING. Old chat logs (bear in mind this was YEARS before I even met him), photos, essays etc.

There were also some photos of me on there that I just took on the webcam out of randomness, as you do when you're 15-18, and some of them aren't ones I might have chosen to show him out of free will!!

And as for the chatlogs..

Ex boyfriends!
Ex best friends..
Enemies..
Relatives..
EVERYTHING.

.....This thread is pretty pointless, other than to give you a bit of a laugh if you've had a bad day. I'm mega embarassed!

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so what...

So?

If you had nothing to hide, you wouldn't care.

As for exes, no matter what they discussed, he's banging you now, doubt he gives a ****.

If he does, just suck him off 4 times, he'll soon shut up.

Reply 3

suzie101

haha sounds like my ex

Reply 4

xoxAngel_Kxox

Original post by Abused Tampon

so what...

I'm still a rock star..

Reply 5

Carpediemxx

Original post by KrispyKatieKreme

I think im in love

Reply 6

skinny-minnie

Original post by KrispyKatieKreme

lol, coz 3 times just wouldn't be enough!

Reply 7

Astra_K

Im shocked someone with such high reputation has created what can only be described as most boring thread of the year.

Reply 8

sil3nt_cha0s

Original post by KrispyKatieKreme

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 9

ily_em

He read all of them? That must have been boring!

Reply 10

username405416

I really don't get the point of this thread...

Reply 11

Hooj

There is nothing in those chat logs about your EX BF's penis being bigger is there?

Reply 12

reisen

why is everyone saying it's not a big deal, i'd be furious, you trusted him and that's a complete invasion of privacy.

Reply 13

HumanNature1992

Original post by Gemma :)!

I'm still a rock star..

Lol

Reply 14

polaroid13

Original post by reisen

why is everyone saying it's not a big deal, i'd be furious, you trusted him and that's a complete invasion of privacy.

Why are you creating an issue where there isn't one?

Reply 15

reisen

Original post by polaroid13

Why are you creating an issue where there isn't one?

How am I creating an issue? i'm just saying how i'd feel in her position, GEEEEEEEZ don't think i'm in the position to create an issue from my living room :rolleyes:

Reply 16

polaroid13

Original post by reisen

How am I creating an issue? i'm just saying how i'd feel in her position, GEEEEEEEZ don't think i'm in the position to create an issue from my living room :rolleyes:

Because it came across to me as if you were trying to provoke those feelings in the OP and questioning (in a judgemental sort of way) why people were feeling the opposite to the way you would feel.
I don't know...I'm just procrastinating and I wanted to be part of something so I said something... :frown:

Reply 17

reisen

Original post by polaroid13

ah right lol, no **** stirring was not my intention :s-smilie:

Reply 18

Misogynist

Two options: a) Confront him, be angry and stuff. Turn it into a silly mess b) Don't care and put your personal integrity aside for a bit.

Reply 19

emeleh

I don't really see your point if you don't have a problem with it.... He should be more embarrassed than you in my opinion for admitting he spent hours reading all your year old conversations!