Ok I broke up with my ex getting on to 3 years ago now (together almost 3 years) - I met someone else fairly soon after (who I now live with etc) anyway ex and me didn't really talk for ages, he said he hated me etc -Both went to separate unis and that was that.... Anyway one evening back home for a while a group of us went out and got really drunk I ended up talking to him about stuff and ended up basically apologising for everything that happened between us
- although I personally think everything was his fault - he broke up with me! - Shouldn't have needed to apologies for meeting someone else....
Anyway he then started talking to me more after that on MSN and things every now and again, every time he got with a new girl he would tell me all about it - I assume to make me 'jealous' - Im really not....
One weekend we were both back in our hometown (this is like a year and half later) he text me saying him and his then g/f had split and he wanted me to go out for a drink with him - I declined.
Didn't really talk again for ages......
Anyway about a month ago his FB status changed to 'in a relationship' - 2 days later I get a text from him asking if Im back for xmas as we should meet up etc - I think I literally replied with 'maybe'.
Anyway today he text me a few times
Him: 'Hey hun, you still coming back to xxxx over xmas? x'
Me: 'If weather holds out I'll be back christmas eve'
Him: 'Damn, well let me know. Ill be out xmas eve, maybe see you out? x'
Me: 'Honestly unlikely - wont be back till late, might be around for few days after'
I mean I don't get it - He literally hated me for an age because I got with someone else and told me we could never be friends etc and then he's texting me asking me to meet up with him now and again - he's with someone else now and he knows Im with someone else. I'd like to believe he has grown up a bit and maybe just wants to act like an adult but in all honesty I don't see that - at the end of the day I last saw him about a year and a half ago and its not like I would have anything to talk about with him regardless, seeing as I live with my OH pretty much everything I would have to talk about would involve him in some way....
If I
did ever meet up with him I cant imagine it would go any differently than him telling me how fantastic his life is in a lame attempt to make me jealous.....