How should I play this?

I met a girl at a bar/club last night. She's really ****ing cool, amazing style, really pretty, great personality. She was quite into me as well, I was dancing with her for ages and she was tryin to act all cool so I told her to stop being cold and loosen up. After that she couldn't stop smiling and I told her she looks really pretty when she smiles. I always think you should leave them wanting more so I got her number, gave her a little kiss on the lips and said goodbye.

Now, as per usual, I can't stop thinking about this girl. I'm not a fan if texting girls so I'm thinking of giving her a call and ask to meet up. Only question is, how long do I wait? I kind of want to call her later today but I'm meant to be meeting friends for drinks and it might seem a bit too eager? Tomorrow? Advice please. Also any ideas on what to say?? Thanks

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Reply 1

Steezy

Bump cos I'm bored and can't sleep

Reply 2

Mann18

Call her tomorrow:

"Hey, you remember that guy you met in the club? No, not the one you got off with behind KFC. No, not the one you got off with in the alley next to Partners. No not th- know what? This was a total wash, thank you for your time."

Reply 3

Steezy

Original post by Mann18

She definitely wasn't a slag. Had to work hard just to get her to dance.

Reply 4

Yawn11

If you wanted to play it cool you've already failed for making this thread.

9/10 times getting a girls number at a club doesn't lead to anything. Guys enjoy the chase (I do it just to see if I can) and ladies enjoy the attention (bitches).

Reply 5

yoyo462001

Original post by Steezy

She definitely wasn't a slag. Had to work hard just to get her to dance.

Game five

Reply 6

Mann18

Original post by Steezy

She definitely wasn't a slag. Had to work hard just to get her to dance.

Or is that what she wanted you to think?

Reply 7

Kiwiiiii

Original post by Yawn11

Really? Can you show me that statistic? Don't mess with the boy head like that!

Call her w/e you like it won't be a problem.. I mean she can easily reject you but that will happen even if you call today or tomorrow. You just need a bit of luck to catch her in a good mood.
If you call her today don't ask her to come with you the same day because it's too early.
Good luck.

Reply 8

Steezy

I don't think you should automatically think a girls a slag because you get her number at a club. I was talking to her for ages, she wasn't making it easy to talk to her at first. Also it wasn't really a club, more like a bar with a dancefloor. It's where all rock type girls go and in my experience they're usually quite intelligent and confident, unslagish types.

Reply 9

Yawn11

Original post by Kiwiiiii

Really? Can you show me that statistic? Don't mess with the boy head like that!

It's just my observation. In a club you're just a random guy she had a dance with or made small talk with.

If it was at a party or something where she spoke to you, got a feel of your personality, and then you got her numb, then something could happen.

From my experience and what I've seen from others getting numbers at parties is always a win, clubs - rarely.

But OP update in a few days and let us know how it goes.

Reply 10

Mann18

Original post by Steezy

I was more implying that you were chasing a slag, rather than labelling all women at a club slags, that simply isn't true, although, the presence of alcohol seems to make them act more slaggish.

Whatever though, just call her whenever it feels right, ask if she'll tickle your Cookie Monster.

Reply 11

Kiwiiiii

Original post by Yawn11

hmm strange ... I assume that my country is far more sluttish than yours :colondollar:

Reply 12

Steezy

Original post by Mann18

I'm trying to explain to you that this girl wasn't a slag

Reply 13

Steezy

Original post by Yawn11

This bar isn't really a club, it's just a bar with a dancefloor and loads of booths. It's a party type atmosphere, not a club so you can chat and all that. I was talking to her for ages and she seemed to really like me at the end of the night

Reply 14

Mann18

Original post by Steezy

I'm trying to explain to you that this girl wasn't a slag

And I'm saying, jokingly, you can't all in certainty know that.

Reply 15

PrimateJ

Most girls you meet in a club will flake. Even if she's attracted to you, there's a good chance she won't respond.

If you want to maximise your chances, strike quick - a day later at most. Keep it brief, cocky, and if she doesn't respond for ages, don't respond straight away. Suggest that you two "hang out" for a while.

cal her tomorrow.

Text or call?

Steezy, you did well last night and I'm sure you'll do well in deciding whether to call/text her now or later, too :wink:

If it was me, I wouldn't over-think it too much. Call or text her when it feels right!

Reply 19

sarahthegemini

Am I the only one thinking maybe she wasn't interested in you OP. You said you had to 'work hard' just to get her to dance with you and have a conversation ... tbh she probably didn't want to talk to you but felt she had to seeing as you obviously wasn't taking the hint.

Text her later today ... and see what she responds (IF she responds) :ninja: