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Original post by Anonymous
can you please develop on why i should pm you?


pm me we'l develop it from there.
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Original post by Peace0fM1nd
pm me we'l develop it from there.
no thank you.
Original post by Love My Fiance
next year but whenever he does come, the wait will be so worth it, good things come to those who wait


Be patient, I understand that it may seem hard at times but the wait may be worth it in the end. Whatever you do, I would advice against doing anything Haraam.

:h:
Original post by Anonymous
i really want to bt its nt easy.i dnt want to marry anyone and prior go getting engaged, i will have to get to know the guy, right? Bt then during this period of getting to know each other,i will be committing a sin, no? Im just sooo confused. What if i believe a guy when he says he wants to marry me, bt then it turns out tht he was nt being honest? I dnt want to make a fool of myself


Explain the bold part?
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Original post by jonathan3909
Explain the bold part?
i mean i don't want to marry any guy: e.g a guy who does not value the things that i do.
Original post by Anonymous
no thank you.


wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you :frown:
Original post by Peace0fM1nd
wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you :frown:


well I must say you DID sound a bit pervy...... lool
Original post by Love My Fiance
well I must say you DID sound a bit pervy...... lool


oh gosh :s-smilie: i hope not!
Original post by Peace0fM1nd
wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you :frown:


Your second post sounded a bit cheesy but I'm sure you didn't mean it. "pm me, we'll develop it from there" lol.
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Original post by Peace0fM1nd
wtf? u made me look like a tw8t - i was gona share some advice with you :frown:

I share the opinion of 'love my fiance'
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killa78
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Do you not go to university where you could find someone?
About the religion thing, I dont think its the worst sin you could commit as long as you dont do anything stupid before marriage :smile:
Original post by Peace0fM1nd
oh gosh :s-smilie: i hope not!


lool "we can develop it from there" sounds like a sexual suggestion lol
Original post by Anonymous
im 21, never had a bf bc its haram but i am fed up of being single. What can i do?
Plz cnt advise me to disregard or quit my religion. Also, i would never use a website for single muslims. I prefer a traditionsl approach. My big problem is tht it is difficult to approach me as i am scared of committing a sin. I dnt want to disrespect my religio but i really want to love and be loved.


Get rid of the burden of your primary socialisation.

Then, go on and enjoy your life.
OP, what nationality are you? Bear in mind how liberal your family are.
Original post by Anonymous
i mean i don't want to marry any guy: e.g a guy who does not value the things that i do.


Why don't you involve your family?
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Original post by Anonymous
i really want to bt its nt easy.i dnt want to marry anyone and prior go getting engaged, i will have to get to know the guy, right? Bt then during this period of getting to know each other,i will be committing a sin, no? Im just sooo confused. What if i believe a guy when he says he wants to marry me, bt then it turns out tht he was nt being honest? I dnt want to make a fool of myself


So long you meet the person and your accompanied by a a member of your family, no problem.
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qasidb
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Original post by 4TSR
If we lived a life full of "what-if" we will never truly live.

Also, for the love god, please please learn how to write properly


you're being a bit hypocritical with that last sentence you just said.
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Hi OP. btw I don't want people to criticise me or anything, unless you've been in the same situation.
Ok, i'm a british asian muslim guy. About 10 months ago realised that i really love this girl. at first i tried to do everything i could to put off my feelings, but it just made them stronger lol. i agree with the muslims that say love is a feeling - you can't help it so there's nothing wrong with experiencing it. but what you can control is your actions towards your feelings. i mean, i would never EVER take things too far if you know what i mean. the only thing i want is to tell her and find that she feels the same about me.

sorry, i'm digressing a bit here lol. what i mean to say is as long as you stay well within your limits, i think it's ok. just casually speak to people, like people have said, you never know who your Mr Right will be!
has this helped? at all? :smile:
Original post by Love My Fiance
lool "we can develop it from there" sounds like a sexual suggestion lol


it was in response to her post 'please develop on why i should...', in retrospect i shudn't have repeated her choice of word 'develop' in my response i can see what u mean now. lol. ps this is typical - the guy is the perv where the girl is innocent just typical
Original post by Peace0fM1nd
it was in response to her post 'please develop on why i should...', in retrospect i shudn't have repeated her choice of word 'develop' in my response i can see what u mean now. lol. ps this is typical - the guy is the perv where the girl is innocent just typical


lol well guess its in a guys nature to be flirtatious without even realising it lol and well...to be honest..you wouldnt really calla girl a pervert would you? you'd call thema slag not pervert lol

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