please anon or delete
theres a guy i like at my new job. he is 6 years older thn me. ever since i joined, we were flirting and he was always staring at me, checking out my body etc. when he broke up with his gf, i was the first person he told and he was always going on and on about how lonely it was being single, we talked in sme detail about our personal life, his ex, my ex, he was saying how he only ever had 3 gfs (he was with his ex for 6 years). and whenever he talks to me he always says how religious he is, which the other guys at work say is a load of bull. he always fins an pportunity to talk abut religion ever since i told him i am very religious and looking for a religious guy. like we could be talking about the lottery and he will talk about 'believing in a higher power'. i ould be talking about hating xmas, he will talk about the religious significance. its like he is trying to impress me with his devoutness.
anyhow the other week, he was saying how he was single and didnt have any commitments and i asked him what he was doing for xmas, he said he was spending it with friends.
but now i have just found out he is spending xmas with a girl he has been dating for the past month or two. so really, was he just leading me on or just fancying me with no intention to date me?
anyhow stupidly, i thought well, if he is gonna play me, i will play games too and i tld him i thought i was still in love with my ex. he started saying about how my ex was a creep and how he would never do the things my ex did (he wanted threesomes with random women).
what is going on???