Is he a douche or am I being too sensitive?

please keep anon or delete. no idea if he goes on here.

what goes beyond 'teasing'/'banter' between two people who like each other/are 'seeing' each other? me and this guy who seems quite nice/fun, we talk every day, see each other a few times a week - parties, hooking up, sex etc- but he rips it out of me like nobody else. from stuff like joking about me being ugly, to saying i'm a snob, a slag (his exact words), a nerd, and putting me down a LOT often beyond a joke, in general, even when he knows i'm a little sick of it. i'm in his phone as 'posh bitch' and he says he'll never change it. and tonight his parting shot on chat was "i'll see you soon for more sex".. that was it. its got to the point when he's NEVER really said anything complimentary to me- on personality, looks or anything. its all just been a lot of insults, which is why its stopped being 'funny'. i can give it back, but sometimes i wish he'd just leave it out.

is the guy a douche?

(i'm OP)

i think he does think its being funny to an extent... and if i ever call him out on it he's like "its called winding you up" or something... but it doesnt seem to stop him. i prob would walk away if i didnt think he treated me better in person than on the phone/facebook (though he still will tease me in person just not as bad).. and if i didnt actually like him at first at least.

to the people who say i let him 'use' me...i wanted to have sex with him too...just would like a bit of respect tbh!

I'm surprised you have put up with it so far... if it were me I'd cut all ties with him, but first get revenge