Met girl, got number, texted, no reply

stop getting numbers, give out yours, or go home with them that night, if they gave you their number because3 their interested sexually, its not that hard to end up at theirs!

also OP ive consulted the gf. dont give up just yet because ive relayed the situation and she told me she liked a bit of persistance as it showed the guy was actually a bit bothered. but also theres a limit you can reach. shes russian so a bit weird with relationships but its worth noting

See, I was kind of thinking leave it til after Xmas, then give her a call. If she doesn't answer, then I'll delete her number, if she does then happy days. Nothing to lose really....

FFS she was perfect - stylish, hot, cute smile, cheeky.

Dunno, it's pretty rare that someone wouldn't notice a text for a whole day.

I could've taken her home as well but thought I was being a gentleman & keeping her wanting more, when in fact I was just being a mug!

Girls like that are a dime a dozen. The fact that you don't think that is your first problem..................




And there we have it!

You are a check/call guy in a bet/fold world. I hope you've learned the lesson.

I really haven't.... I didn't understand that last bit at all... She wanted to **** me and I wasted the opportunity? If that's the lesson then yes, I have learnt it

Should've ****ed her for value tbf.

What I mean by the last bit is that for some reason (probably fear of something, I don't know what) you decided to take the safe route, even though the more aggressive route (i.e. sex with her there and then while she's up for it) has a possible downside, but a better upside, and is more +EV in the long run.

stop finding excuses. You were rejected, end of. Yeah you may have got on well, she may have approached you, but she probably realised that actually no, she didn't like you after all.

Stayed with me the whole night until I left? I'm not finding excuses, I'm telling people how the night was so that I can get some personalised responses.

Yeah, **** it, you've all said what I was thinking. It's a shame but I'm out tonight, Wednesday & Thursday, then it's new years, so I'm sure I'll move on

It's been a frickin day! You don't know if she's rejecting you or not because you don't know what kind of texter she is, if she's a serial texter then yeah she's rejecting you but is she's an occasional texter then don't give up just like that.

Either way you've only met her once, people are never as perfect for you when you get to know them, a lot of guys get caught up in the allure of a girl they don't know very well and vice versa, particularly a girl they've not 'conquered', as soon as you get to know her and you've had a lot of sex with her your interest will diminish 9 times out of 10, you see it happen all the time with people. But then as you said you didn't have sex with her when a lot of guys would have so maybe in your case you are more considerate when it comes to being interested in people.