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hi firstly judging by the type of attention u get u sound pretty lol secondly u are very lucky to get so much attention lol make the most of it, u dont want to look back at ur situation when ur an old woman an say " Damn i shouldnt have stopped that guy from putting his tounge in my mouth" if all that does not work hire a bouncer lol
I really hate the 'don't dress like a slag' responses. She can dress however the **** she likes. Her issue is that when she SAYS NO to guys they still pursue her. That is completely different to attracting men initially by the way you dress.

Regardless of how a woman is dressed, if she SAYS NO she should be left alone.
If a woman on the street in the day time told you to **** off would you continue harassing them?
Reply 102
OP, there's nothing to say stop going to clubs, but it sounds like you may enjoy yourself more somewhere else, like a bar.
Original post by Liam_G

If you have any guy friends that would like to go clubbing with you, invite them. An excess of sausage amongst the pasties is a sure way to deter the pastry monsters...

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:rofl: That deserves pos rep right there. Wise words.
Original post by 69Crazyfists
I'm fairly certain there will be guys trying to pull in gay bars. It's just they'll be trying to pull other guys :smile:


Exactllly.

As a girl, OP won't have a problem.
Don't go?

Sit your ass at home?

Go to gay bars?

:s-smilie:
Reply 106
Original post by sixthformer
Men are attracted to women
dress provocatively, and you will attract the wrong attention
i mean, even if you dress 'modestly' and go to such places, it still won't be good.
You have an answer, find a new place you and your friends can go to...
one where people aren't intoxicated by alcohol, leave the room smelling disgusting, lose all sense of shame and morals, and are godless.


People are free to dress how they please. Sure, wearing more revealing clothing is likely to make guys more lustful, but that still gives them no right whatsoever to physically or verbally harass the girls wearing them.

Oh and don't try and bring your 'god' into it.
Reply 107
Get GOOD friends to go with, not ones that run off with guys like mine do...
Don't wear skirts/dresses?
Mini hairspray in bag can act as pepper spray as it's illegal here :wink: I would only say that because of your bad experience with the spiking - that's serious! Where were your friends?
Reply 108
Oh and I have to say, I am totally disappointed/disgusted with some of the replies in this thread. Some people with a very skewed outlook on life.
Original post by sixthformer
Tshadow,
the UK, which is where i live, has the highest, or one of the highest rates of teen preganancy
almost one of the highest divorce rates
you hear of rape cases , and many wrong things
the internet contains like pornography almost everywhere
this isn't the 'west'
this is ' corruption'
the west is a place where sicentific thinking flourished, where the nhs wass set up, and where, finally, black and white people were looked upon as being EQUALS , finally.
What is the purpose of getting intoxicated, not even controlling your actions, and vomiting all over the place while commiting acts with others? i mean, where is the purpose? no sense of shame


So why do you live here then? Gtfo.
Original post by Gemma2010
Get GOOD friends to go with, not ones that run off with guys like mine do...
Don't wear skirts/dresses?
Mini hairspray in bag can act as pepper spray as it's illegal here :wink: I would only say that because of your bad experience with the spiking - that's serious! Where were your friends?


Don't wear skirts/dresses, why not? A lot of people seem to think that dressing like a 'slag' is basically an invitation for rape, it isn't. Women can dress how they like and shouldn't have to be pestered or groped by men..yes some women do dress provactively but even then, if they say no it means no. If i wanted to go out tonight in my underwear I could, I shouldn't be subject to any kind of abuse because of it.
Don't dress like your up for it then. Though it is lechery on their half your not exactly helping the situation by going to places universally considered in this society to be accepted as meeting places for people to have one night stands with.

Use your common sense; if you don't want to be treated like a piece of meat then don't act like one.
Reply 112
This is like going to a football match and complaining about the noise...
Reply 113
Original post by Anonymous
Anon as I know people on here.

I'm getting really sick of being treated like a piece of meat at clubs.


Go to gay/lesbian bars?
[...] one guy even shoved his tongue down my throat without warning the other night [...]

Was this the guy?

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Original post by Mm_Minty
If they're still harassing you after you've made it clear you're not interested you can either
a) seek out security and tell them what's going on, hopefully if they just have a word they won't bother you again or will kick the sleazebags out
b)ask if you can buy them a drink, go to the bar and order ice water for yourself and throw it over them an yell "maybe that will calm you down, you horny bugger. Now piss off and stop trying to hump my leg!"

Or just take some guy mates if you don't like confrontation.... :ahee:


^How to end up in A&E :tongue:
Original post by NeonSkies
Go to less sleazy clubs? What that guy did when he spiked your drink is unacceptable you should report him to the police if you have an idea of what he looks like or his name or something.


So that's how you report a crime? I've been doing it wrong my whole life. I assumed you just cough at the policeman instead of describing the 'perp'.

This is the kind of thing people need to know. It could really help track down criminals.
Reply 117
Original post by olivia_w92
Don't wear skirts/dresses, why not? A lot of people seem to think that dressing like a 'slag' is basically an invitation for rape, it isn't. Women can dress how they like and shouldn't have to be pestered or groped by men..yes some women do dress provactively but even then, if they say no it means no. If i wanted to go out tonight in my underwear I could, I shouldn't be subject to any kind of abuse because of it.


I don't mean she shouldn't dress how she wants, just your skirt can't be pulled up and you won't have any guy putting their hands up there if you wear shorts or trousers you know?
Simple answer: go out with guys instead of / as well as girls.
They won't do that then :biggrin:
Whenever a guy approaches me I just dance with a male friend. Sorted.
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Original post by Joel4fun4u
So that's how you report a crime? I've been doing it wrong my whole life. I assumed you just cough at the policeman instead of describing the 'perp'.

This is the kind of thing people need to know. It could really help track down criminals.


Comic genius there, no really, you deserve a prize for that.

What is wrong with some people, are you retarded or something. Sometimes people do not report problems to the police because they are too frightened to do so or do not know what to say. So I'm sorry Mr Know-it-all, but some are not as forthcoming as you may be. Get a life.

A perpetrator is what criminals are normally described as in the USA by the way, not in the UK. You need to stop watching so much TV.
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