Too Easy!

With my girlfriend, at the beginning it was fine but now I'm just sort of like 'ugh'. I don't even have to try to get anything sexual, may it be sex or a blow job. There's no challenge and it's sort of dwelling on me. It's sort of like, at least tease me, I don't want it if it's that's easy.

On the other hand, she thinks I'm the 'bad' one, the one that can't behave if were together but still I know she likes it. Should I be challenging myself.. For instance tomorrow night should 'behave' myself and be 'good' and provide her with a challange to actualy get some? Do you girls prefer this?

Be careful - if you suddenly stop being sexual with her it can cause extreme offence to some girls. The last girl I was with used to keep complaining about how all I wanted was sex (apparently) and that I was being too pushy, always moaning like that. I eventually got tired of going along with it (I actually have relatively little interest in sex) and just stopped trying to come onto her, for one evening, and she basically flipped, absolutely lost the plot.

Self esteem = DESTROYED

That was the last time I saw her.

Sounds like a bit of a psycho to me

No - if I want sex and feel like I'm being made to work for it I will get bored of you very quickly. You either want it or you dont - I don't understand what the issue is but I appreciated the 2pac reference.

It's happened before to various extents. Girls just love pretending to dislike a guy's attentions, and it's a bit of fun at first but eventually gets tiring. It makes you feel like a bit of a rapist.

With my girlfriend, at the beginning it was fine but now I'm just sort of like 'ugh'. I don't even have to try to get anything sexual, may it be sex or a blow job. There's no challenge and it's sort of dwelling on me. It's sort of like, at least tease me, I don't want it if it's that's easy.

On the other hand, she thinks I'm the 'bad' one, the one that can't behave if were together but still I know she likes it. Should I be challenging myself.. For instance tomorrow night should 'behave' myself and be 'good' and provide her with a challange to actualy get some? Do you girls prefer this?

That's what I find weird, why pretend?

To go along with what she enjoys. It's like how girls always tell me, from the start, that I must be a total player, and talk about how I am probably keeping some other girls on the side as well - they're not describing me in that role, they're prescribing the role to me, they like the idea of it. When actually I'm a total loser who gets a girl ~once a year if I try hard. Again, once I give up that act and they find out, they're gone faster than a thread about race and IQ.

Exactly!

If people could actually pay attention to detail. My Questions lie on my own part. Not hers. I can only control my own actions. In Fact she probably follows my actions.

Again the questions in the OP were towards my part. Do I gave it to her because I want to and because I'm horny or Do I give it to her for good behaviour and challenge her, Henry or not?

Sounds like you've been out with some great girls then