OMG boyfriend judges me for having sex too "soon"!

Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

Did I put out too soon?

Before I had sex with my boyfriend (and also lost my virginity), we'd known each other for a month and been dating for 2 weeks. Yes, I know some may view it as soon.

He has lately been saying comments about it, like how "easy" I was and how it didn't take long....and how I have no right to judge people that sleep around and get STDs because of the short time it took for him to get me into bed.

I know it takes 2 to tango, but lets face it, girls will always get called derogatory names, while guys get a pat on the back.

Did I put out too soon?

He's kinda like me, dont get me wrong.
Although he wanted some vagina, he didnt want it that early, but since you gave it to him he took it.

What you describes just there more or less describes how I lost my virginity, I wanted sex, but I wasnt expecting it AT ALL. But hey I'm a warm blooded man, saying no never really popped into my head.

And yes girls it is a double standard, and it's a double standard because of the way way we look at ourselfs and sex. A guy will generally want sex all the time, and jump at any oppertunity, a girl will tend to be protective and less outwardly 'horny'. Because of this when you have two people who both sleep around the guy, having done what most men want to do, gets a pat on the back for being successful. The woman, while she may be comfortable with her choices is seen as loose and easy because she has done something which is unexpected and relative to her gender could be considered a 'slag'.

Personally I dont think that way, but my observation is that is how society thinks.

I get what you're saying but to assume women don't want sex as much as men is ridiculous. If we didn't want it, we wouldn't do it. At the end of the day, sex is win-win, I don't see why anyone should feel bad about it after if they wanted it at the time...

Thats why I said outwardly horny and not just plain horny. I realise women are not from another planet XD, my point was only that in my experience guys will talk about sex much more often, and much more loudly than women. The same way that in my experience guys ask out girls much more often. I try not to be sexist and only speak from things I have experience. EG you dont see women on teh internet saying "stfu and get ur dick out" but "stfu and get your tits out" seems to be some peoples' catchphrase