How many people here have never had a girlfriend or boyfriend?

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only ever been serious about one guy, got hurt bad, not really looking to go through that kind of hell again. pushed a few guys away because of that, but really, being single is too much fun at the mo :tongue:

Reply 241

Averagegirl:)

Original post by blueray

Yeah i got to an all boys one some of them can dance as in "skank""robot movement thing" but im .......at it lol :biggrin:

Haha "skank" is the standard word at our 'neighbouring' boys school.

Thank God you're bad at it, if you were good at the "skank robot" then I'd be seriously worried for your future. :smile:

Reply 242

NaturalDisaster

Original post by blueray

You have a Digimon avatar? :biggrin:

Yep.

Best cartoon ever.

Reply 243

Facticity

Original post by NaturalDisaster

Yep.

Best cartoon ever.

I think you mean anime :colonhash:

Reply 244

Anonymous #12

Unless having an 11 year old girlfriend counts, then no. (I was also 11 at the time btw.)
I have been asked out a couple of times in my teens but I didn't fancy her so I said no.
Also, my group of friends is quite close but its all guys, so i find it hard to socialise with girls. :frown:

Reply 245

User570431

Original post by NaturalDisaster

Yep.

Best cartoon ever.

Original post by Facticity

I think you mean anime :colonhash:

YA all love my one line comment !

Original post by Averagegirl:)

Haha "skank" is the standard word at our 'neighbouring' boys school.

Thank God you're bad at it, if you were good at the "skank robot" then I'd be seriously worried for your future. :smile:

Are you in london??? :biggrin:

Reply 246

Ocarinaoftime

I've never had a boyfriend

I don't have a problem with it at all, people have asked me out BUT why agree when I don't have the same feelings for them as they do me? I don't want to lead them on, I'd say yes if I did though

Another reason I decline offers is because chances are I'll be off to uni next September and would be living far away from them and where they choose to go, and I don't want to get into that because i'll be studying art and there won't be enough time to go home a lot.

So...that would be why xD

lol zelda good name

I've never had a proper boyfriend, the last 'boyfriend' I had was my best friend in Year 7, but that didn't really count.
I guess it's because I'm shy, and I never ever have courage enough to ask a guy out.
Some guys have said they like me, but I have low self-esteem so I can never see why they like me, and they're never my type. I would like a boyfriend though, and I'm determined to try and speak up when I like someone

Reply 249

Anonymous #13

21 Male, never had one. I think I'm way too picky, I find plenty of girls attractive but they never seem like girlfriend material (personality wise).

Reply 250

OddThings

Original post by diamonddust

Moi. Haven't met a guy I like that isn't taken, gay, or just plain disinterested!

I'm really... not shy, I can banter no problem, but I'm unconfident. I don't think guys see me as the girlfriend type.

It never really bothered me, but it's starting to. I'm not going to rush into a relationship for the hell of it though. As long as I'm not still single by the age of 25 or something, I won't worry about spending the rest of my life alone until then! :biggrin:

I feel exactly the same way. :smile:

Reply 251

missgeorgia

I've never had a boyfriend, although its not something im really embarrassed about. I'm at uni at the moment and theres plenty of opportunity around to have a boyfriend, but its not something i want i guess.. Added to this is the fact im also a muslim, so you're not really supposed too date. But you see people around you have relationships, friends have boyfriends etc. so i guess there is always this temptation...

Its frustrating sometimes. If i really wanted a bf, i could have, in the sense that ive had guys complement me, give me their number etc but i wouldnt feel comfortable i guess.. added to this is the fact that i am an incredibly shy person :colondollar:

so i can only guess its hard for them to get through to me :redface:

Reply 252

lastmanstanding

Original post by missgeorgia

so i can only guess its hard for them to get through to me :redface:

Please don't give in to shaytaan!

I've been there and done that (uni) and it always broke my heart to see such decent muslim girls being taken the wrong way by certain guys.

Uni either makes you or breaks you - please; let it make you :smile:

Reply 253

missgeorgia

Original post by lastmanstanding

Awwww don't worry im quite strong person :wink:

.. i mean, i havent given into temptation yet so i should be ok! and like i said im a shyy personn so it would never work anyway! lol

Reply 254

katiethehobbit

I've never had a boyfriend.

I've not really been that bothered tbh.

Reply 255

lastmanstanding

Original post by missgeorgia

Awwww don't worry im quite strong person :wink:

.. i mean, i havent given into temptation yet so i should be ok! and like i said im a shyy personn so it would never work anyway! lol

I can only hope :smile:

I know the temptation is always there - I thought I'd be safe because I had a beard and hung around with 'ISOC lads', but to no avail. Even I was almost sucked into the world of fitna, fasad and zina.

The door to the world of the above will continue to me knocked upon whilst in uni....it's also much worse for you as a female. Some guys like going after the 'shy type' as it represents mystery to them and another girl to add to their list :frown:

Reply 256

minime23

Original post by Beadle's About

As the title says. Why haven't you got anyone yet? Is it just that you have a lack of confidence or is it that you can't be bothered and prefer to be single?

I'm having a hard time understanding why people can't get someone.

Mee

(and NO I am happy and content :biggrin:

)
neither of these WAIT can't be bothered and prefer to be single :s-smilie:

Reply 257

PxCharley

me. im16. not to say i have never done anything with a guy (which i sometimes regret) ive gone to 3rd with a one night stand type thing and there was a guy i liked, we hung out one night then i found out he did weed and became completely dissinterested when he vommed out my window.

but now my best friends seems to want something, im thinking i should go for it as i have real reason why i wouldnt. wooo lesbian relationship instead for me. fair enough.

Reply 258

User570431

??????People just think this

Reply 259

speilberg91

I had a girlfriend for a day but her ex came back on the scene so that was the end of that! Other than that, nothing. I guess because I'm too shy and on the odd occasion there has been interest in me, I either haven't picked up on it or I was too slow in doing something. I've never been too bothered about not having one either.