Are there any girls who have decided they never want to have kids?

Fair enough, but I beg to differ. But I fail to see how this makes me an inferior human being (or do you not even classify me as human at all?) just because I feel scientific/technological advancement and economic/political prosperity are far more important things compared with the "need to have kids".

Yeah i meant settle down.
I dont mind just going out with someone who doesnt want children, but if they want things to get serious, they are going to have to change their mind. Otherwise i am out of there

To the very specific question of would I want to marry a girl who didn't want children, the honest answer is no I wouldn't. Nothing stops that girl being amazing, but the not wanting children causes a problem long term.

Is there something wrong with society if so many girls don't want to have kids? What happens decades down the line when we're still burdening paying for everyone's pensions and we have no new breed of young talent to drive the country forward.

To the very specific question of would I want to marry a girl who didn't want children, the honest answer is no I wouldn't. Nothing stops that girl being amazing, but the not wanting children causes a problem long term.

I don't believe I said anything about people without kids as being inferior human beings.

I believe my first post was me wondering about how many people will change their minds about what is important in life as they grow older. After all most people on this site are barely in there 20's and haven't even started their lives yet

That's exactly how I feel too. I absolutely adore kids and would love to have one or two with a long-term partner. I just can't imagine how dull life past ~40 would be once my parents and other family have died.

Would prefer to have my own kids but if whoever I was with said she would only adopt, I'd do that instead.

It's no more 'wrong' for women to not want to have children than it is for men. I find it disturbing when people suggest that it is.

Wow TSR girls are soooo full of ****.

Who wants to make babies with ugly bitches anyways.

We're just being pragmatic.

I'm saying there's an underlying problem given that one of society's main functions is to facilitate and indeed encourage the formation of relationships and children. I'm sure you can see the bigger picture 50 years down the line. Is it sustainable?

I couldnt imagine not having children in the future (and i want to have one before im too old (35) so preferably the woman would have to put her career on hold so she can get me a few babies.

I wouldn't marry a woman who didn't ever want children.

I don't have a maternal instinct for babies or children - just animals. I think I'll be a cat lady.

Do you talk **** purposely for the neg rep?

I'm never going to get married or have kids.
I'm too much of a heartless bitch for either





This sounds wayyyy more up my street



Do you?

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

My reasons are really deep. My mum has always gone on about how people who decide not to have children are selfish but then I the reason I don't want to have children is actually because of them. I'm really cold and emotionally unavailable because of the way they brought me up. They have been so cold and emotionally unavailable in brining me up and my mum doesn't know what unconditional love is.

I just fear I would turn out like them if I ever became a parent.

I think they are the selfish ones for having me as a child all because they wanted a cute baby but then when the going got tough when I got older, they couldn't deal with it.

I think they are really hoping to become grandparents one day because they keep looking at my aunts who now have grandchildren with admiration. I don't think I will afford them that opportunity.

Irrelevant.

What does that make your post then?

Relevant.

Not really.
It was rather dickish, like most of your posts I've seen.
And, of course, irrelevant to the topic.


But never mind, we'll be here all day if we carry on like this