Guys: You like this girl...

Your post confuses me, you like a girl or a guy?

Either way, I think you're over analyzing. Life's too short, just get on in there.

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Leon Trotsky

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Just flutter your eyelids at him and he'll get the message and ask you out.

Reply 3

OP

Original post by Jmzie-Coupe

Your post confuses me, you like a girl or a guy?

Either way, I think you're over analyzing. Life's too short, just get on in there.

I'm a girl who likes a guy haha

Don't guys find it a bit of a turn off when a girl initiates things?

It seems desperate.

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Original post by xBxx

I'm a girl who likes a guy haha

Don't guys find it a bit of a turn off when a girl initiates things?

It seems desperate.

No. I prefer it. More work for you, less work for me.

Only idiots say the opposite.

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Original post by Arcanine

Argh, just pull his kecks down and suck on his member will you.

I wonder how long it will take until you get banned. You piss pretty much everyone off on this forum, not to mention you're the most pityful member, I mean look at your avatar for gods sake.

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Arcanine

Original post by Jmzie-Coupe

I wonder how long it will take until you get banned. You piss pretty much everyone off on this forum, not to mention you're the most pityful member, I mean look at your avatar for gods sake.

Well, my rep > your rep. Clearly some people enjoy my posts. Pwnt.

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soutioirsim

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Original post by xBxx

Don't guys find it a bit of a turn off when a girl initiates things?

Wtf, no!! I wish girls would get this whole desperate thing out of their head :frown:

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Carpediemxx

Original post by xBxx

I'm a girl who likes a guy haha

Don't guys find it a bit of a turn off when a girl initiates things?

It seems desperate.

nah, huge turn on for me

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Original post by Arcanine

Well, my rep > your rep. Clearly some people enjoy my posts. Pwnt.

I'm glad that rep means so much to you. It doesn't to me. Go play with pokemon kthx.

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Carpediemxx

Original post by soutioirsim

Wtf, no!! I wish girls would get this whole desperate thing out of their head :frown:

yeah, its so hot if a girl starts things off, especially if its someone you didnt think was into you

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TravelGuru

Original post by Arcanine

Well, my rep > your rep. Clearly some people enjoy my posts. Pwnt.

Na, you're a cvnt mate.

Reply 12

OP

Original post by Carpediemxx

nah, huge turn on for me

What would stop you asking the girl you like?

Reply 13

Carpediemxx

Original post by xBxx

What would stop you asking the girl you like?

that question wouldnt apply to me if i was the person in your situation because i have more confidence....which is the key for him, youve alreayd said he is shy, so finds it a bit hard to muster the courage to ask you out properly

If your a bit more forthcoming, like find time alone so he can approach you away from freinds, look at him a lot, for longer than usual, and initiate conversations with him also...there are lots of nice ways you can start things off when you are shy and so is he

Reply 14

Morbo

Original post by xBxx

I'm a girl who likes a guy haha

Don't guys find it a bit of a turn off when a girl initiates things?

It seems desperate.

Personally, I don't mind girls not initiating things, but they must respond! Even if you hold back on actually making the first move, you absolutely must make it easy for him to do it. It sounds like things are progressing fine if you've found out that he likes you, so I think all you have to do is keep giving the right signals. Flirt. Find excuses to be close to him. Touch him a lot and stuff. Look into his eyes etc. etc.

If this doesn't work, you could speed things along without making the first move by just asking him directly how he feels about you! Beware though, it might catch him off-guard, so make sure it's the right time and that he'd feel comfortable being honest.

EDIT: What generally stops someone making the first move when they want to is the fear that by doing that, the fun that's happened up until that point might be ruined, so people generally want some sign that it'd be OK to turn up the heat a bit....

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 15

OP

Ok thank you. I may ask if we could hang out one time?

why do i have to text him first though? It makes me feel like

im annoying and he doesn't care?

Original post by Carpediemxx

that question wouldnt apply to me if i was the person in your situation because i have more confidence....which is the key for him, youve alreayd said he is shy, so finds it a bit hard to muster the courage to ask you out properly

If your a bit more forthcoming, like find time alone so he can approach you away from freinds, look at him a lot, for longer than usual, and initiate conversations with him also...there are lots of nice ways you can start things off when you are shy and so is he

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Arcanine

Original post by Jmzie-Coupe

I'm glad that rep means so much to you. It doesn't to me. Go play with pokemon kthx.

Pokemon > Topcat.

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glance

If he's shy, then I'm afraid he's probably unlikely to initiate the "asking out" stage even though he wants to ask you out. I see nothing wrong with the girl being the one who initiates this stage, but if you feel strongly that you want to follow tradition then you could be really blatant with your feelings and open the door massively for him to ask you out. That way, he'd feel like he was doing the masculine thing and making the first move even though you'd nutmegged two central defenders and expertly passed the ball to the goal hanger.

Reply 18

im so academic

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Original post by Carpediemxx

yeah, its so hot if a girl starts things off, especially if its someone you didnt think was into you

What if the girl wasn't hot physically?

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