Long story short, my friends and I were discussing going to see a film together last Monday; phoned them up today to ask if they wanted to go this Thursday because my car would be fixed by then, and their unanimous reply?
"Oh, sorry, I've already seen it - went last Friday."
Unless by some amazing coincidence they all decided to go and see this film, alone, on the same day, I think it's pretty obvious they all saw this film together on Friday ... and no one even called me. And that none of them admit they saw it with the others indicates that they intentionally kept me out of it, because otherwise they would have said something more like, "We all went on Friday - didn't so-and-so call you?"
Maybe I'm just being paranoid, but they've been doing other things that seem to be trying to push me out lately - having Christmas dinner at a restaurant I can't eat in (food allergies), arranging a last minute holiday over the period my cousin's funeral was in so I couldn't go, going to see a 3D film when they know I don't have the ability to see them, that sort of thing.
It's like they don't want me around anymore. Our friendships maybe didn't have the strongest of foundations, but they've been good friends until about two months ago. I don't know what I've done to deserve this, because I'm pretty sure I haven't changed. More than that, I don't know what to do now; I don't want to keep on trying to be friends with people who clearly don't want me around because that's just desperate ... but, at the same time, it's not fair they get to push me out, and it's not like I have anyone else because they're all doing it.
Any advice, TSR?
TL;DR version: 'Friends' seem to be trying to push me out of their lives by doing things like secretly going to see films we discussed seeing together. Don't want to seem desperate by trying to stay friends when it's obvious they don't want me, but also don't want to let them win - what should I do?