For starters, I consider myself to be a "nice" girl, not "bitchy". I am a little shy, but if a guy came up to me, I wouldn't go all crazy & giggley & shy. I find it easy to speak to guys actually!
A lot a guys probably find it easier to approach "bitchy" girls (however u may define the word "bitchy") because they can seem more fun & easier to be around than "nice" girls.
That still doesn't mean that "nice" girls at the end of the day aren't fun to be around. They're just a little harder (at first) to get to know & talk to (seeing as "bitchy" girls usually throw themselves on any cute guy & blurt out their whole life story before the guy has a chance to ask them anything!!).
I agree with the apple tree anicdote:
Girls are like
apples on trees. The best
ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys don't want to reach for
the good ones because they are afraid
of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they
just get the rotten apples from the ground
that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples
at the top think something is wrong with
them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right
boy to come along, the one
who's brave enough
to climb
all the way
to the top
of the tree.
My life practically goes by that - I'm going to wait until the right guy for me comes along, the one who doesn't judge a girl on whether they look "nice" or "bitchy" but who decides to be brave, man up, & come ask me out! That's all there is to it! As much as "bitchy" girls may seem like the fun ones, don't forget guys the "nice" girls will at least treat u right!