How do you know if he is the one?

Now I know this guy but I am not sure if I fancy him or not. He is a lot older then me (I am 25, he is 38) and I do not fancy him facially. He has his own business etc and is very skilled, I am just plowing my way doing dead end jobs. Is it worth seeing this guy to see what could happen, or stop now as I am not that attracted to him and feel the age gap is to much?

Reply 1

rhinger

So basically you're attracted because he has his own business and is very skilled.

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Reply 2

Krov

10

Your gold digging instincts are taking over.
How cute.

Reply 3

darkred

20

I think OP sneaked a look at his bank balance.

Reply 4

love_mojitos

OP

2

yeah true.....
i have never had a bf so maybe i should just settle for him? will my love for him grow? i know my bank balace will be good and he is a dentist so can fix my teeth.

Reply 5

Lemons

14

You don't seem to like him at all so he probably isn't.

Reply 6

anfieldred07

You are not attracted to him so end it. How would you feel if you were strung along, only to find out at a later date that the man you were involved with, was not actually "that attracted" to you?

It's not fair on him and you obviously want someone else who gives you what you need/want.

Reply 7

Fandabidoze!

7

I'm very skilled too. :sexface:

Reply 8

love_mojitos

OP

2

he is kind and generous and i like talking to him, he makes me feel good but i feel like i am always making the move for sex.

I like the way he looks - i am no looker, but I also think my family will think wtf as he is a lot older then me.

I dunno.

Reply 9

Casshern1456

18

I don't think the age-gap is really that big....the older you get the less important it is.

Reply 10

Liam 09

12

okay the fix my teeth comment makes me think troll -.-

Reply 11

James4d

13

And people say gold-diggers are an urban myth... :rolleyes:

Reply 12

.Heather.

1

Original post by Casshern1456

I don't think the age-gap is really that big....the older you get the less important it is.

This.

Original post by love_mojitos

he is kind and generous and i like talking to him, he makes me feel good but i feel like i am always making the move for sex.

I like the way he looks - i am no looker, but I also think my family will think wtf as he is a lot older then me.

I dunno.

But you just said you weren't facially attracted to him :confused:

. Also, he's hardly that old...

Reply 13

StrawberryKoi

12

Original post by love_mojitos

yeah true.....
i have never had a bf so maybe i should just settle for him? will my love for him grow? i know my bank balace will be good and he is a dentist so can fix my teeth.