my crush has a huge nose

You know what they say about guys with big noses...

nah sadly it isn't true

Lately I've developed a sort of a distance crush on a friend. We met and lived together while on an exchange a few years back, got along wonderfully, and stayed in touch. I never thought of him as more than just a really good friend until recently when we got into some more personal conversations I found myself extremely attracted to him intellectually and emotionally. Well this is the thing. I'll be going to visit him in a few months and am wondering if it's fair to start anything (if there's a moment) because (and this sounds horrible) I see constant teasing on my family's side on account of his huge nose. He's really sweet, intelligent, well educated, has a good job, is quite good looking (a bit on the thin side though), but my god, he has too large of a nose even for a Jew (and yes, he's Jewish). I just know that my family and friends would really fixate on that and always see him as only the guy with the big nose. If he were a girl friend of mine I'd suggest to her to get a nose job, but I don't think that would be fair to say to a guy. I know I sound horrible, and I admit I'm not perfect, but if his nose were smaller he would be. :/

wow, a bit harsh in my opinion

If I was attracted to a guy, and he was everything you have described then I would not care what they thought, and I also wouldn't care about the size of his nose either, the unique things make us interesting

but yno, if it's bothering you ALREADY then don't pursue it, let the guy get a girl who likes him regardless of how he looks...