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Have you ever cried over a girl or guy?

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Reply 100

BBYoungLady

Original post by should be revising

Sorry to be a grammar Nazi but...

*accepted / accept

:fuhrer:

omg that was disgusting grammar -____-

you had the right to correct me loool

Reply 101

Malkmus

Yes and I don't really see what the big deal is about admitting it.

Reply 102

Wulf chan

Yes... since then I have learned much and matured. It was scary how much I cared about her. Oh well, bitch your loss. :biggrin:

Reply 103

JamesyB

When my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, cried for ages haha

Reply 104

SoulfulBoy

Original post by what's my name?

when I was younger yes, now I'm just like whatever D*** your loss, i only went out with you cause I felt sorry for you, now go and cry :smile:

Liar.

Reply 105

SoulfulBoy

Original post by Mm_Minty

SO. MANY. TIMES. :|
He wasn't worth it.
:facepalm2:

He was. Every one of us is. You cry because you are not able to stand by yourself. :smile:

Loneliness is terrible.

Reply 106

SoulfulBoy

Original post by >Anna<

Of course. More than once over the same guy too. :sigh:

I would not let you cry over me. :smile:

Trust me even if my words aren't worth it.

Reply 107

imperial maniac

Yea all time.

I'm such a sop.

Reply 108

Profesh

Once in November of last year (following the disintegration of my long-term relationship), and once in 2007 (after reading an incredibly heartfelt love-letter from a girl I'd turned down).

It helps.

Reply 109

>Anna<

Original post by SoulfulBoy

I would not let you cry over me. :smile:

Trust me even if my words aren't worth it.

I think that, while we'd all like to think we'd never make someone cry, most of us will at some point. Matters of the heart are a bitch.

Reply 110

SoulfulBoy

Original post by >Anna<

I think that, while we'd all like to think we'd never make someone cry, most of us will at some point. Matters of the heart are a bitch.

I keep thinking we have not still grasped a mature concept of love but we are still stuck in primitive existential conflicts.

Reply 111

meenu89

Plenty of times over my boyfriend for various reasons.

Reply 112

>Anna<

Original post by SoulfulBoy

I keep thinking we have not still grasped a mature concept of love but we are still stuck in primitive existential conflicts.

But is love ever mature or rational? I'm not convinced :p:

Reply 113

SoulfulBoy

Original post by >Anna<

But is love ever mature or rational? I'm not convinced :p:

I see that what we can see around us is a 'desperate' need of attachment (be religion, boyfriend, sport/ethnic group) rather than a self-affirmative force called love. Taking the first one as 'love' then yes, love is completely irrational and you are in 'desperate' need of it, if we take the second definition, about love starting with self-love then loving everything alive, every single expression (or counter-expression) of love, that love is in its mature form is more about me caring for the others' growth selflessly rather than me caring about them only/because/due to/ them caring about me too. :smile:

Reply 114

Cybele

Only once and looking back I feel stupid for getting upset over it.

Reply 115

Peachykeen09

yeh

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Reply 116

Anonymous #5

Yes, too many times. Most recently when I told a guy I have liked for 8 years, yes, 8 years, that I had feelings for him. He didn't feel the same. I thought that he gave me 'signs' but apparently not. :erm:

Reply 117

Master.K

Nope.....Even my mum says I'm stone hearted.....I wouldn't say that, but I just don't cry easily. :p:

Reply 118

ash92:)

..yes. I was in love with a girl, still am. i really thought the feeling was mutual from everything that I could gather. turns out, she liked someone else - who's btw a flirt. Nice guys finish last. anyway...I'm getting over it. I still care a lot for her, but at the end of the day, I just want her to always be happy - with or without me