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first notices of the other sex

I had an idea rather than asking "when was your first X" I thought I would ask "when did you first think about x" so
when did you first think...
1) the other genders not so bad (if you went through a i hate boys/girls phase)
2) you were interested in a person from the other gender
3) you wanted to kiss (with a someone you know, not in general)
4) you wanted to go further (with someone you know, not in general)
5) you wanted a gf/bf

Feel free to say ages, give details, tell stories or all of the above :smile:
1. dunno, never hated boys really....maybe started "fancying" them at about 11?
2. 11
3. probably about 13 (didn't for a long time)
4. About 15 (didn't for a long time)
5. as above
Reply 2
I grew up with a lot of older sisters...

1,2,3,5: 8/9ish. I remember when I was nine I made a poster with lots of lipstick kisses on it saying 'kiss me or kill me' :lolwut:
4: 12 I think...

Thinking about it, I grew up too fast. Or at least, wanted to be a grown up too early (seeing as I didn't actually do most of these things until much later)
Like 7 I was exposed to porn at a young age:ninja:
Original post by Casshern1456
Like 7 I was exposed to porn at a young age:ninja:


I told your mum to keep them DVD's hidden :wink:
Original post by Niall2407
I told your mum to keep them DVD's hidden :wink:


It was my mums bf
1) can't remember :') probably about year 3/4 ish?
2) year 6 :rolleyes:
3) um, year 7/8 probably - when I was 12 I first kissed someone, so.
4) 15 ish.
5) 12+
Other sex not so bad when I was maybe 13 or so, but it took until I was sixteen and I met a girl I really liked and the other points came then kinda all at once. :P Didn't work out though... :/ she kinda accidentally lead me on a bit, not her fault.

I didn't really take the opposite sex very seriously until this girl, it changed me a lot. Quite late I think? Haha
Reply 8
On the subject of being exposed to porn,

I remember googling(!) looking up in a dictionary the word 'protestant', finding out what it meant, and being perpetually confused for a few years. :colondollar:

Found out later that that wasn't quite the word I'd been hearing.
Reply 9
Original post by DOA
I had an idea rather than asking "when was your first X" I thought I would ask "when did you first think about x" so
when did you first think...
1) the other genders not so bad (if you went through a i hate boys/girls phase)
2) you were interested in a person from the other gender
3) you wanted to kiss (with a someone you know, not in general)
4) you wanted to go further (with someone you know, not in general)
5) you wanted a gf/bf

Feel free to say ages, give details, tell stories or all of the above :smile:


1)6. I never really hated boys. I was just indifferent until the below.
2) 6. There was a new boy in the class and I was like wow. He is gorgeous.
3)6. I wanted to kiss the new boy in the class.
4)12. I had my first proper kiss then and I realised I was getting quite excited about what was happening.
5)15 ish. I did have my first boyfriend then as well.
Did no-one else here have a boyfriend in year 1/2 or play kiss chase like we did?!
Reply 11
1) probs about 12
2) 13ish
3) 13
4) 14-15
5) 14

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