just got shown gf's blog.. should i be worried??

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Wow that is pretty strange, hardly the worst thing I've seen on the internet (shudder) but certainly not what you might picture when thinking of an ideal girlfriend's hobbies! Talk to her, you don't want to be going out with someone you don't even know.

Reply 21

sparky86

I'd get yourself tested.

Reply 22

Zax

Ah, extreme art! It has a long and noble history, incorporating exhibitions of crashed cars and used tampons and that bloke who exhibited dissected bodies. I think this is just what she does artistically - don't assume it'll intrude upon your relationship unless or until you see it happening. If it does and she won't accept that it disturbs you, then that could be the time to call it a day.

Reply 23

OceanInTheSky

Link me.Link me. Link me.Link me.

Reply 24

misscharli

booo i missed the link, im curious now!

Reply 25

mollymustard

The link has now been removed as the content was quite extreme. Please do not repost it, thanks.

Reply 26

AccessDenied

Original post by Anonymous

Should I talk to her? Like, I've heard she's been abused and tried to kill herself but I thought her past was irrelevant but it seems like i was being really ****ing naive right

Yes, you must speak with her. It's the only way you're ever going to know. However, your girlfriend might be offended you found her blog and accuse you of stalking, being nosy etc... but your best defence is because you love and care deeply for her.

Her reasons for not being so open about her past. It may be because she wants to protect you from being hurt - I don't know, but if your future relationship depends on you both being open and honest with each other, then gently encouraging her will only help strengthen your relationship, and that you both will grow together.

Reply 27

Yawn11

I'd dump her if it was me, haven't got time for miss crazy.

(edited 13 years ago)

I missed it :frown:

Doh!

I wanna see :frown:

Reply 30

tface

Original post by mollymustard

The link has now been removed as the content was quite extreme. Please do not repost it, thanks.

Is it ok for people to ask for me to PM them the link? I can imagine the horrible burning curiosity to see what the big deal is about, and I'll link anyone up. It's ****ed up though, not for squeamish/normal people.

Reply 31

insoms

Woah she has issues.

Clicked through a few pictures, standard artsy overly emotional rubbish they always post to be deliberately out there.

Then came accross a rather disturbing one

Girl naked on her back with blood smeared up from her... yeah down there and then all round her mouth... I do hope thats fake blood lol :s-smilie:

So yeah she has issues is she one of those overly depressive melodramatic 'look at me I'm so unconventional' types by any chance.

Reply 32

insignificant

Original post by tface

de-annoned...

People, seriously you don't wanna see it... I don't think I'd be even allowed to describe what was in that link..

Reply 33

insoms

Original post by AccessDenied

She'll probably just respond with "Stop trying to stifle my creativity you're just like the rest of society you can't handle my unique artistic expressions!!!" bunch of bull all those extreme artsy types come out with.

Reply 34

mollymustard

Original post by tface

Yes that's fine.

Reply 35

Absinth

I think you're a troll.

Reply 36

no-fat-chicks

PM me the link or curiosity will kill my cat!!!

Reply 37

Anonymous #1

Original post by insoms

So yeah she has issues is she one of those overly depressive melodramatic 'look at me I'm so unconventional' types by any chance.

Not at all. She's fairly quiet, but very helpful in the studios and with certain people she's selfless. She's friends with people in our class that at the beginning of the year we considered really weird, but she gives them a chance.. so yeah this is a bit of a surprise to me. her friend says she's not over past abuse but i don't even know if that's all rumours you see