Hypocritical boyfriend and masturbation

Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???

Reply 1

sil3nt_cha0s

16

Well isn't it obvious?

He's never going to be able to screw a pornstar, but you could quite easily screw those guys you know.

Reply 2

Roo Bix

11

Original post by sil3nt_cha0s

He's never going to be able to screw a pornstar, but you could quite easily screw those guys you know.

Just to elaborate on this, guys you know (and guys he probably knows) are much more closer to home.

Reply 3

Blueflare

18

Girls from porn are completely detached from real life, whereas guys you know obviously are not.

Reply 4

Stoof

2

Your relationship can be summed up in one word - lulzworthy

Reply 5

NeonSkies

12

It's like that advert where the girls are all naming hot celebs they would like to go out with, and when the girl's partner is asked the same question he says a work colleague everyone knows.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OESLEOo3rqw

It makes your boyfriend insecure because you could very easily go out and have sex with one of the people you know, but celebrities/porn stars etc. are unattainable so it would be impossible for your boyfriend to get with any of them (or at least very very unlikely!).

It is a bit hypocritical to imagine having sex with someone else and think its wrong that you do the same, so I see your point.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 6

The_resurrection

6

He's better of without you. Slut.

Reply 7

U.S Lecce

3

What everyone else is saying. Porns stars are people he'll never meet, your friends are potential relationship breakers.

Reply 8

U.S Lecce

3

Original post by NeonSkies

It's like that advert where the girls are all naming hot celebs they would like to go out with, and when the girl's partner is asked the same question he says "your sister".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OESLEOo3rqw

It makes your boyfriend insecure because you could very easily go out and have sex with one of the people you know, but celebrities/porn stars etc. are unattainable so it would be impossible for your boyfriend to get with any of them (or at least very very unlikely!).

It is a bit hypocritical to imagine having sex with someone else and think its wrong that you do the same, so I see your point.

This one:

Reply 9

Cheesecakefactory

14

Well if you f*** him every day he won't even need to watch porn.

Reply 10

NeonSkies

12

Original post by U.S Lecce

This one:

Yeah

I didn't know how to put the vid on my post so I pasted the link. Funny advert.

Reply 11

Deggerz

6

If you are in a relationship and you are masturbating over other guys that you know, and he probably know, obviously he isnt going to be too pleased. If you ever told any of them that you masturbate over them then you could quite easily get them to do anything you wished.

However, he is masturbating over people that he doesnt know, you dont know, he will never meet and he will NEVER get any chance of sleeping with them

There are ways of patching this relationship up...but it would involve not being so honest with him anymore...
Best thing to do...either leave him or wait for him to leave you...

Reply 12

dmz

17

Original post by The_resurrection

He's better of without you. Slut.

LMFAO at both comments

Reply 13

WelshBluebird

16

Original post by Anonymous

guys I know

This is why.

Reply 14

TurboCretin

20

The difference is quite obvious, as is the reason for him being upset. That's dumpworthy to be honest.

Reply 15

Double Agent

18

Are you out of your ****ing mind?

Reply 16

Jellybean91

12

ouch!!!

How would you feel if he told you he fantasises about shagging your best friend while he masterbates?

Reply 17

imperial maniac

16

Original post by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???

The fact you know them obviously makes a massive difference.

How can you NOT realize that? seriously.

Reply 18

Lord_Farquad

15

Original post by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend, for some reason were talking about porn and masturbating. He said that while he watches it, he imagines having sex with that girl in that way while he.....pleasures himself. I don't get anything from porn, so I normally think about guys I know and think are rather hot.....I told him this and he got insecure and upset. Why is it fair for him to do it, but not me? Why would the fact I know them make any difference???

Honestly, I'd be quite annoyed in my gf told me this. Pornstars aren't really someone we can take action with, we'll never see them but these fellas are far too close to home for us.

Reply 19

antoastew

if i was him i probably would have dumped you on the spot to be perfectly honest, porn stars are meant to be a fantasy and not people you know. hence the crazy build up with pizza orders, maids and nurses etc and even their stupid made up names!

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