Tell the truth girls why do you go for.......

Im a black guy and everytime im out I get noticed a lot by white girls. The problem is I dont know whether they are going for me because of the myth about black guys. Im only 6 inches therefore everytime a girl approaches me i turn them down because i think theyre only going for me because they think im well hung. So my question is why is it a lot of white girls go for black guys, is it the fact that you expect to find a huge package or is it because you find them attractive? Seriously your answers would help me get over my insecurities.

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Reply 1

*Dreaming*

No, girls do not just go for guys who they think might have a huge "package". They probably find you attractive, I doubt your willy is the first thing they're thinking about. And 6 inches isn't bad compared to some anyway.

Reply 2

Liam 09

You've turned girls down because of a bit of a wild assumption? This country has a waste problem already..

Reply 3

Jmzie-Coupe

It's because you're black

Reply 4

Mr Smurf

So why are you complaining about this? I am an Oriental guy and I really like white girls. But they never go for Oriental guys :sad:

. I would be really happy if a white girl who I found attractive was into Oriental guys :sadnod:

. Even if she was one of those types that are obsessed with anything to do with anime or Japan in general. Although I question whether anime obsessed white girls are as common as some make it out to be. How come I have never met one? :dry:

Reply 5

yougotitlikethat

Original post by Mr Smurf

So why are you complaining about this? I am an Oriental guy and I really like white girls. But they never go for Oriental guys :sad:

. I would be really happy if a white girl who I found attractive was into Oriental guys :sadnod:

Oh do shut up will ya?

Reply 6

hanaalou

nah it's because they find YOU attractive not because they're fantasising about what's in your pants :smile:

Reply 7

maton_91

Original post by yougotitlikethat

Oh do shut up will ya?

Hahahahahaha!

+ve rep for you my son!

Reply 8

~*Horse_Mad*~

I don't find a guy attractive on the assumption he has a 'good package' as a relationship should never ever be based on sex :rolleyes:

As far as going for a particular race of person goes, it's irrelevant to me. I see the person as opposed to their skin colour - at the end of the day we all have a heart, we all have a soul and we all have a right to be here :smile:

Why should a guy's skin colour make me any more or less attracted to him because it's 'fashionable' or whatever, it's the person I'm interested in/ attracted to!! :smile:

Reply 9

Melting Sugar.

They're not going for you because you're black or for the stereotype you mention, they're going for you because they're attracted to you. They don't get with all black guys do they? Like they don't get with all white guys.. unless they're a bit.. friendly.

Reply 10

DiZZeeKiD

Original post by Melting Sugar.

This. And lol'd at this bit.

Don't be insecure about it. If they didn't like you, they wouldn't approach you anyway, regardless of what their assumption might be about your, ahem, trouser snake. If I heard a bloke had a massive dick but he was unattractive, it's still not going to happen.

Reply 11

Kerny

Original post by Mr Smurf

Although I question whether anime obsessed white girls are as common as some make it out to be. How come I have never met one? :dry:

They are ugly/fat and hiding in the basement.

Reply 12

reisen

Maybe you're just good looking cos the size of the package doesn't come in to my mind *ahem* at all when I'm interested. It sounds like lots of white girls like black guys but I've not met any with that preference.

Reply 13

username657728

Original post by Anonymous

tbh i dont know any girls that go for guys based on size :s just take the compliment!

Reply 14

Roloqueen

Original post by Anonymous

I can't speak for all the women on the planet, but when I see someone attractive - whatever their skin colour - my mind doesn't skip ahead to their dick. If a girl seems interested, it's probably because she enjoys what she's seeing. To be honest, mate, it's probably just that you're hot.

Reply 15

TheCurlyHairedDude

All the white girls I know like them white guys with justin beiber hairstyles that wear abercrombie and fitch ¬¬ lol

That's a good thing btw because most white girls don't have ass and breh.

Reply 16

TheHyacinthGirl

I don't think it'll be that reason. I think it's just because black guys are very often have attractive faces and bodies, if we're looking at it frrom a physical perspective. Aside from that you might be good to talk to or seem inviting in other non-physical ways.