Is it reasonable, if at the age of 21, your parents still try to suppress you using their authority as parents?
Maybe a few details of my life will help in making my question clearer:
1) I use MSN without my parents knowing because otherwise they will be watching over me whenever im online to see who i'm talking to and about what.
2) I have a ''secret'' email account, because my parents made me give them the password of the email account I originally had, which they go on to and check at their own leisure.
2) I have a phone, but I have to put it on silent as soon as I get home from uni, because if it rings, my parents will expect me to tell them in detail who called, why they called etc.
3) Once my dad borrowed my phone because his wasn't working or something. I got a text from a friend at the time, (my dad isnt very english literate), and so he wrote on a piece of paper what the text had in order to ask my mum or someone what it meant later (incase i delete the txt after). I only knew this coz i found the piece of paper in his coat pocket when i was asked to get him something from his coat.
3) I drive my dad's car to uni.
Once im back, he checks the mileage to see if I have been anywhere other than uni - and if the mileage does differ by a couple of miles, they LIE to me that someone called them to say they saw me 'somewhere' and demand to know where i went other than uni, when infact I only went down the road to get lunch and then had to drive around the parking lot for a while trying to find a parking space. - I can't tell them this, because they expect me to buy lunch from uni canteen only.
I'm 21, is this happening to me because i'm being too scared of my parents, and they are taking advantage of that.
I have no privacy, and i don't know what to do about it. Privacy is something i should expect to have by now right?