If escorting is the only way then I’m happy to do it

Very poor family, live in very bad conditions. I have two younger siblings and I would do anything to change their lives now. My parents are unable to do much, I as an older child should do something for them. I want to buy them a nice house, and look after them.

I’m going uni in September, I’m going to a different city so no one would really know me. I really wnat to make a lot of money and I need this money to sort out my family’s life. I believe escorting is the only way, I’m actually a virgin but I really wouldn’t mind if it means that my family would have an easier life.
Please can I have some genuine advice
Thanks in advance

Reply 1

Janey142

3

Get a job, not an infection.

Reply 2

opinionscount66

I actually genuinely have nothing against escorting, but I don't think you sound like the sort of person that would make a good escort.

kl beans

You may want to think about this carefully

You will have to have sex with guys like this

Spoiler

HE will be inside of you! Is that what you want? Really?

There are other ways to make money.

good luck

Reply 5

The_TSR_Dunce

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sorry but why the **** is it socialy acceptable on tsr to use/be a prostitute, the people on here are supposed to be the mature clever ones, but tbh using/being a prostitute is ****ing desperate

Reply 6

ForKicks

12

You would not be able to afford to buy them a house as an escort (well..depending on how attractive you are/ your contacts)! Best thing is focus on your degree and enter a decent profession, much less soul destroying. I can't help but feel this thread may be a bit drastic for the sake of highlighting self-pity..

Reply 7

HaNzY

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Why can't you get a normal job in a shop or something? Everyone has to start at the bottom, you can't just earn tons of money immediately.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by ForKicks

You would not be able to afford to buy them a house as an escort (well..depending on how attractive you are/ your contacts)! Best thing is focus on your degree and enter a decent profession, much less soul destroying. I can't help but feel this thread may be a bit drastic for the sake of highlighting self-pity..

I don't want to sound big headed but I get a lot of attention from guys just walking down the street. I get told that I'm very attractive, I have a sexy body and that I'm really pretty :s-smilie:

but getting a degree and then getting a well paid job is going to take very long. I want to something now :frown:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by HaNzY

Why can't you get a normal job in a shop or something? Everyone has to start at the bottom, you can't just earn tons of money immediately.

yes you're right, I do have a job actually but the pay isn't much I can't save up or anything :frown:

my parents are really stressed out and I need to do something

Reply 10

*Dreaming*

15

It may sound glamorous, but escorting is normally done by women who chose it as a "career" choice- and they have to be quite skilled in more ways than one, such as actually know how to talk to clients as well. They have to enjoy it (or seem to enjoy it), that's what gets the high cash. Escorts are normally from an agency, which may be hard to get into, I can imagine that for the very high class escorts, they'd have to be extremely attractive. Men that hire escorts normally pay quite a lot- they want someone who knows what she's doing, to have fun, not someone who's hating every second of it.

Most girls just end up being prostitutes, probably selling it for a fiver after a few months, which is probably what would happen to you if you go down this route.

And you really really don't want to lose your virginity to a "client". It would hurt, and they probably wouldn't care about that. And the sex is crap the first time, so I doubt a man would pay for that, and if they did then that's a bit sick on a different level.

So unless if you get into a top agency, charging £1000s a night, it's very unlikely it would greatly help your family, and I doubt they'd be happy if you went down this route. Just try get a "normal" job is my advice.

Reply 11

ForKicks

12

Well if you must do something drastic related to your body, do stripping or lap-dancing, not escorting

Reply 12

TobeTheHero

15

why can't you work at retail shops or mcdonalds? Level One.

Reply 13

Antonia87

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Original post by *Dreaming*

It may sound glamorous, but escorting is normally done by women who chose it as a "career" choice- and they have to be quite skilled in more ways than one, such as actually know how to talk to clients as well. They have to enjoy it (or seem to enjoy it), that's what gets the high cash. Escorts are normally from an agency, which may be hard to get into, I can imagine that for the very high class escorts, they'd have to be extremely attractive. Men that hire escorts normally pay quite a lot- they want someone who knows what she's doing, to have fun, not someone who's hating every second of it.

Most girls just end up being prostitutes, probably selling it for a fiver after a few months, which is probably what would happen to you if you go down this route.

And you really really don't want to lose your virginity to a "client". It would hurt, and they probably wouldn't care about that. And the sex is crap the first time, so I doubt a man would pay for that, and if they did then that's a bit sick on a different level.

So unless if you get into a top agency, charging £1000s a night, it's very unlikely it would greatly help your family, and I doubt they'd be happy if you went down this route. Just try get a "normal" job is my advice.

Its the same thing? You're having sex for money, regardless of what words are used to 'glam it up'. Seems to me both the prostitutes and the clients just use the word "escort" in an attempt to eradicate the shame of selling sex, or paying for it.

And OP, I really dont think you want to get involved in this world.

Reply 14

*Dreaming*

15

Original post by Antonia87

Its the same thing? You're having sex for money, regardless of what words are used to 'glam it up'. Seems to me both the prostitutes and the clients just use the word "escort" in an attempt to eradicate the shame of selling sex, or paying for it.

And OP, I really dont think you want to get involved in this world.

Yes it is the same thing essentially, what I meant was most of these girls do not go to agencys and get the thousands of pounds they think they will get, they just become the girls on the streets selling it cheap.

Reply 15

Eveiebaby

12

This isnt the number one concern but I'm thinking....I wouldnt advise you be a virgin and an escort. You'd have no skill. What is it you'd be able to offer the clients? They'll be expecting a certain level of service.

Also for god sake if you must do it make sure you look after yourself.

You sound frightfully naive and easy to scam.

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 16

RetiredAccount89

18

Original post by Anonymous

yes you're right, I do have a job actually but the pay isn't much I can't save up or anything :frown:

my parents are really stressed out and I need to do something

I'm sure they will be far less stressed knowing the dangers their daughter is subjecting herself to

Reply 17

Janey142

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Original post by Anonymous

I don't want to sound big headed but I get a lot of attention from guys just walking down the street. I get told that I'm very attractive, I have a sexy body and that I'm really pretty :s-smilie:

but getting a degree and then getting a well paid job is going to take very long. I want to something now :frown:

Just because your attractive and want money doesn't mean you should have people pay you for sex. Is that the type of role model you want to be for your sisters?