My breasts are too big

Strenghten your back and neck.

bench press to tighten the chest and reduce breast size.

I've been thinking about getting breast lift surgery, but it costs so much money and might affect breast feeding in the future etc.

Strenghten your back and neck.

bench press to tighten the chest and reduce breast size.

Just think of it this way: Is it worth the risk? Do you think it is worth it?

Would this really work?

I have the same problem. I'm a D-cup (no where near an F but I'm 5'3 so go figure) and its literally destroyed my confidence since I was about 13. I hate the bras- I wear them so tight it really makes my back hurt. And they really make me so look much fatter (I'm average-sized, but having such big boobs makes me look dumpier). When it comes to choosing clothes, I can't wear half the stuff because either my boobs look too big, or so much cleavage shows that I look like a slut. That realy sucks cuz I'm pretty fashion-conscious.

I'm waiting to start uni now, but I'm alrdy saving up to get a breast reduction as soon as possible.

To answer your question- I think big boobs are attractive, but after a certain point, attractive or not, they become a pain to the unfortunate woman who has to lug them around. And its YOU who matters, not random guys who might enjoy the view.

And for the breast-feeding concerns, there are plenty of milk supplements and powders, and it doesn't actually affect your pregnancy. Personally, its a risk I'm willing to take if it means a lifetime of confidence and less health problems (from back pain, etc).

Thanks for this
It's more for me and how it makes me feel.
I'm also going to uni next year, and I've saved up some money for it. I think I'm going to keep saving though for either a breast lift/reduction (going to take a while considering how much it costs).
I thought I was a D cup (and had been wearing 32D bras), then got measured at 3 different places and they said 32F-FF. I would kill to have a D cup!

Please keep anon.

Firstly, I'm not trying to brag about the size of my breasts. They're not HUGE, they're just too big for me (32F-FF).

They make my back hurt and hurt during exercise. They're starting to sag already (I'm 18) and I don't think they've ever been 'perky'. This really knocks my confidence, and I'll never take my bra off in front of anyone.

I've been thinking about getting breast lift surgery, but it costs so much money and might affect breast feeding in the future etc.

I've also thought about trying to get a breast reduction on the nhs, if possible.

I suppose I'm asking what people on here think I should do, and what you think about natural larger breasts in general - are they less attractive than smaller perkier ones?

Hey! I'm a 30-32G so I'm a similar size and I know how you feel, they can be a right pain. Mine make me feel like I can't breathe if I lie on my back haha. But are you sure you want to change them? I've learnt to accept them and now I love them! I have an hourglass figure so I'd look ridiculously out of proportion with smaller onces, plus it's harder to find bras and clothes (which is annoying!) but when I do, they tend to look more femenine. You have to find the right clothes that suit, I personally find vintage 40s style clothes suit larger breasted ladies better! They're tailored and femenine, so they emphasise the curves.

Backpain is awful though. Not too sure what we can do about it. :/

If they're painful and get in the way, that's one thing, and as a guy I can't imagine it or provide any opinion on it. But in terms of attractiveness, you really have nothing to worry about. Aside from the stereotypical point that lots of men (not all, but definitely an awful lot) tend to like big breasts, you say you're happy with how you look until you take your bra off? As one member said, when you get to that stage, no guy is going to care. Personally I tend to find larger natural breasts more attractive than any others, but more importantly than whether they're big or small, guys simply love boobs, and any guy you get with will just be thrilled you're naked. The attractiveness of your boobs isn't something you need to worry about at all.

Breast reduction surgery is major surgery. As with any major surgery, it has serious risks. On the attractiveness side, it also tends to leave pretty significant scars which are something that can be a little off putting from a guys point of view: whereas breast implants can be put in through a small hole, breast reduction involves cutting a section out and sewing the remaining bits back together.

The first thing to do (if you haven't already) is to try out different types and sizes of bras to see if they can reduce the discomfort. If the pain can't be reduced to a level you find acceptable, surgery may be the best last resort. However I would strongly advise you not to have it done for aesthetic reasons - they're extremely unlikely to put any guy off you, especially when you've got to the stage of removing your bra, whereas the scars from a breast reduction are likely to be more offputting, if anything would be.

Thanks, I haven't thought about trying different styles of clothes, I mainly try and squeeze into whatever new look has in!
I will try and accept them, I suppose it could be worse.
If you don't mind me asking where do you get your bras from? I can never find nice looking ones, just plain looking ones.